What's good for the goose...
As previously mentioned, my wife and I have been together for 18 years. High School sweet-hearts. Not married for all that time, but we have been intimate for the majority of the time. Prior to the last 6 months, we had only tried 1 anal anything. Let's just be frank shall we? Watching a porn is not a good primer on how to make anal enjoyable for anyone involved. It wasn't good. Hurt her, wasn't fun for me either. What's the phrase?? When you think you have enough lube, add more. And BTW, spit is not an adequate lube in most situations. Also, working up to the size of a dick is important. I'm seriously surprised she was ever willing to try again... even if it did take over 10 years.
Staying on topic however, Over the last 6 months, she has let me start with a finger (good story there sometime...) and eventually she let me work on her orally, something I wanted to do. About 2 months ago, she let me work up to using her vibrator on her analy. WOW!
After she had let me use my fingers on her it got me to thinking... One day I was in the shower and needed to beat off (prior to previously spoken about conversation) I was thinking about her and how she really liked my finger in her ass. I decided, what the hell, if she liked it that much, why shouldn't I try it? I quickly reached out of the shower and into my cabinet and grabbed the lube. Applied a bunch to my fingers and started to massage my ring. mmmmm. That was nice...
OWWWW!!!! It started to burn. I quickly realized that the warming massage KY is NOT appropriate for anal use! Unless you like that kind of thing. I quickly rinsed off and tried to mentally get back into the mood. It didn't work. However, I did decide that I wanted to try it, 'cause for that brief minute, it felt great.
A couple of days later I prepped a little better. I grabbed the regular KY and went into the bathroom. I got my finger all lubed up and started again, after barely getting the door closed. At first I just squated, but decided it would be more comfortable if I was on my knees. After laying out a towel I knelt on it and started massaging my ring again. It felt great. I tried to lube up really well before slipping in a finger, just like I did with my wife. I was already very hard, so I squirted a little lube on my dick and used my other had to stroke a few times. I'm ready... I thought to myself. I was a little nervous.
Does wanting to do this make my gay? What if I really like it? Would I just keep it to myself or could I ever broach this with my wife? I know these sound silly, but there is a lot of built up social baggage, especially for guys.
*push* just a little. and I pulled my finger back out and and massaged some more. *push* a little further this time. Pull back again. Damn I'm hard. *push* to my second knuckle. mmmmmmm. I feel like if I touch my dick I'm gonna pop. I don't pull all the way out this time. *push* SHIT that feel good. I'm now in almost all the way with my middle finger. I'm still not ready to cum so I just sit and enjoy the feeling. I know I've had bigger craps, but I feel full. I'm really just enjoying the feeling. I want to pull back, so I do. The in and out motion isn't as enjoyable as just moving my finger around and twisting.
I almost sub-consciously reach for my dick and start to move my hand. I'm trying hard not to make much sound as my family is down stairs, but OH MY this feels good. I don't get far before I'm shooting all over the bathroom floor. The first shot is well past the egde of the towel. Luckily, I had thought about the towel so it catches most of it as my orgasm continues.
I removed my finger, which wasn't too bad. I thought I might not like it once I had had my orgasm. Cleaned up and took my shower. My mind was distracted all day. I really liked it and didn't know what to do about it, if anything.
I've sinced used her vibrator as well. HOLY CRAP. It felt to big, but I REALLY liked it. I mean REALLY, scarily, liked it. (I'll save the story for this for a part 2.)
As an update, I did inform my wife that I had tried my fingers after thinking about what I had done with her and was curious what the vibrator would feel like, but that I would leave it in her hands (although I didn't). I'm hoping she'll surprise me one of these days. She was pretty interested in the idea, yet she is not really into playing with me with either her hands or mouth. (There's a ton to share about on those subjects) I've read a few of the stories on analplay about being pegged and I'm almost salivating thinking that one day she might use a strap-on on me. Of course, I'm excited and yet still nervous about it. It's a definite unmentionable it seems right now.
Until next time...
Staying on topic however, Over the last 6 months, she has let me start with a finger (good story there sometime...) and eventually she let me work on her orally, something I wanted to do. About 2 months ago, she let me work up to using her vibrator on her analy. WOW!
After she had let me use my fingers on her it got me to thinking... One day I was in the shower and needed to beat off (prior to previously spoken about conversation) I was thinking about her and how she really liked my finger in her ass. I decided, what the hell, if she liked it that much, why shouldn't I try it? I quickly reached out of the shower and into my cabinet and grabbed the lube. Applied a bunch to my fingers and started to massage my ring. mmmmm. That was nice...
OWWWW!!!! It started to burn. I quickly realized that the warming massage KY is NOT appropriate for anal use! Unless you like that kind of thing. I quickly rinsed off and tried to mentally get back into the mood. It didn't work. However, I did decide that I wanted to try it, 'cause for that brief minute, it felt great.
A couple of days later I prepped a little better. I grabbed the regular KY and went into the bathroom. I got my finger all lubed up and started again, after barely getting the door closed. At first I just squated, but decided it would be more comfortable if I was on my knees. After laying out a towel I knelt on it and started massaging my ring again. It felt great. I tried to lube up really well before slipping in a finger, just like I did with my wife. I was already very hard, so I squirted a little lube on my dick and used my other had to stroke a few times. I'm ready... I thought to myself. I was a little nervous.
Does wanting to do this make my gay? What if I really like it? Would I just keep it to myself or could I ever broach this with my wife? I know these sound silly, but there is a lot of built up social baggage, especially for guys.
*push* just a little. and I pulled my finger back out and and massaged some more. *push* a little further this time. Pull back again. Damn I'm hard. *push* to my second knuckle. mmmmmmm. I feel like if I touch my dick I'm gonna pop. I don't pull all the way out this time. *push* SHIT that feel good. I'm now in almost all the way with my middle finger. I'm still not ready to cum so I just sit and enjoy the feeling. I know I've had bigger craps, but I feel full. I'm really just enjoying the feeling. I want to pull back, so I do. The in and out motion isn't as enjoyable as just moving my finger around and twisting.
I almost sub-consciously reach for my dick and start to move my hand. I'm trying hard not to make much sound as my family is down stairs, but OH MY this feels good. I don't get far before I'm shooting all over the bathroom floor. The first shot is well past the egde of the towel. Luckily, I had thought about the towel so it catches most of it as my orgasm continues.
I removed my finger, which wasn't too bad. I thought I might not like it once I had had my orgasm. Cleaned up and took my shower. My mind was distracted all day. I really liked it and didn't know what to do about it, if anything.
I've sinced used her vibrator as well. HOLY CRAP. It felt to big, but I REALLY liked it. I mean REALLY, scarily, liked it. (I'll save the story for this for a part 2.)
As an update, I did inform my wife that I had tried my fingers after thinking about what I had done with her and was curious what the vibrator would feel like, but that I would leave it in her hands (although I didn't). I'm hoping she'll surprise me one of these days. She was pretty interested in the idea, yet she is not really into playing with me with either her hands or mouth. (There's a ton to share about on those subjects) I've read a few of the stories on analplay about being pegged and I'm almost salivating thinking that one day she might use a strap-on on me. Of course, I'm excited and yet still nervous about it. It's a definite unmentionable it seems right now.
Until next time...