My interaction with the internetz has been to not engage in controversial matters, to not express an opinion that people might take ‘the wrong way’, especially in their own journals. Because fandom IS my happy place, I feel I engage on subjects that are important to me in real life quite enough
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However, one thoughtless fan writing a fic that she was no doubt very proud of could have been enlightened with a few polite comments. Having her name and crime blazed across fandom will only have the effect of either driving her out of fandom (at least under that name) or provoke a ‘fuck you’ response. She won’t learn anything.
It is unfortunate that people dogpile and that some people are less than polite, but flame-wars are as old as human-kind. I don’t agree with this point. It seems to say we should accept it. I don’t agree that individual fans, whatever their viewpoint, should be ‘dogpiled’, which is just another word for bullying ( ... )
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I further believe that the sneaky implications behind what he says, of a jewish conspiracy and the anti-semitism that supports such an idea is nasty and dangerous.
The trouble is, I don't believe a few polite comments actually do the job. The Haiti fic was... well. It wasn't just the fact that it was set in Haiti, it displayed some enormously troubling stereotypes (the natural servility of brown folks, some "awww shucks massa" dialogue. Not to mention the dismissal of their religion). I know that I facepalmed all the way through reading it ( ... )
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How do we know a few polite comments wouldn’t have worked? I think before something like this goes viral more effort should made in a low key way. I honestly don’t think she set out to write about ‘troubling’ issues, she thought she was writing a romance - it was ignorance.
I loved that list you linked to about being polite to people, I think it makes another good point - they may be new to fandom, or lj - I think she (and others like her) deserve that benefit of the doubt too. I do not think a proportional response is the answer. I am arguing exactly the opposite. *G*
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Sometimes when people say "shut up, you're wrong" instead of engaging it's because they've tried engaging a thousand times in the past and they're tired of having the same conversation. It's not really an attempt to stifle free speech as much as saying they don't want to hear the same old bullshit arguments again in *their* little corner of the internet. They're trying to create a safe space.
Having said that, I completely agree with the need to listen generously and not form a lynch mob when someone makes a mistake.
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Is there any point in saying 'shut up, you're wrong' though? If the argument's exhausted, and neither side has convinced the other, should it not just...end?
What do you think about free speech in general?
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I support people's right to say whatever they believe as part of a reasoned debate, based on evidence etc. I don't support hate speech and vilification. The difficulty problem is the grey area between these two extremes and different opinions about the dividing line.
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One of the arguments for allowing hate speech and vilification is that if governments have the power to censor people, movements like the American Civil Rights movement would never have succeeded.
I read an interesting article about the difference between the US First Amendment and the Canadian Charter of Rights, which sets limits. The article concluded that they both set out to protect equality and diversity, where they mainly differ is in the level of trust in government.
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I'm also too slow a thinker to react at the speed required to show respect on the internets. I am not gifted enough with the written word to have conversations on the internets that I am willing to have IRL.
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I have no idea why it's easier for me to say to my boss 'I found your use of that word offensive, for the following reasons...' than it is to engage people online.
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Unfortunately it's used for both, now.
This unit I'm doing is about teaching people to think. The problem with thinking for yourself is having to step out of your comfort zone!!!!
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