Inner strength.

[sarie16]

Today is about me. It's been 5 days since I've talked to my ex and I think I need to start cutting ties. He contacted me today... I'm letting the text stay in limbo.

I'm getting nothing out of our "friendship".

I hurt whenever I hear about him and his wife. He likes knowing I'm still in love with him.
He's using me to feel better about himself.
I'm

Comments

[freshwaterdame]

I think that getting past a former love is one of the hardest things on the planet.....and I think it takes time. That being said, cutting ties sounds like it help BIG time....le sigh! 2015 Will be YOUR year!!!

[sarie16]

It's the worst! 2015 is everyone's year...I can feel it in me bones :D

[ravenzcircle]

Its best to cut ties with him,
If you don't, you can never really heal, in my opinion.
Fuck that guy, next time, slap his ass with a cucumber to the face!
Just take time for yourself and forget him :)

[sarie16]

Cucumber-face-ass-slap... GOT IT! 
This is the first major break up I've done on my own, hence me starting LJ. I figure this is better than me finding another rebound and hurting myself all over again.
The encouragement is appreciated :)

[nessainwe]

ex's are ex's for a reason... cutting ties sounds like a fantastic idea :)