Altars
One of my favorite books is Hinds Feet on High Places by Hannah Hurnard. It's the allegorical story of the journey of Much Afraid, with the Shepherd, from the Valley of Humiliation to the High Places. While there are things I disagree with in the book (mainly how Songs of Songs is used), I can very much relate to Much Afraid's journey and as such, I find it quite encouraging to read. Late this afternoon, I was re-reading certain chapters that I feel like relate to some stuff I'm going through now, and afterwards I noted how altars are used in the book. After or during each hard place that the Shepherd brings Much Afraid to and through, she usually builds an altar. The altars are used either to sacrifice something (i.e. Much Afraid's will, etc.) or to be used as a memorial of something that the Shepherd had taught her.
Last night was kind of a breaking point for me in regards to some things. I've been struggling with trusting God in regards to my friendships with close friends back in the States (since I can only communicate with them through e-mail or chatting or calling...and I so much just want to be with my close friends in person). And I realised that it was because I was afraid if I let go of those friendships and placed them in God's hands, then He might let us grow apart or something like that. Thinking and praying about that brought tears, and after crying myself into an exhaustion, I realised that I had to just place my friendships in God's hands and trust. Trust that whatever He brings about in them is good because He is always good and His plan is perfect. It's scary, but it's also incredibly comforting since I know that me thinking that I could keep my friendships together by being "in control" of them was all just an illusion...I can't do anything on my own.
With all of these realisations (though I already knew all of them...but I didn't really KNOW them), I essentially wanted an altar. I wanted to submit it all to Jesus and say, "From here on out, I will trust You completely with everything". As a very dear friend noted when I was telling her about it, it's because I hate unresolved things. And she's right, I wanted this whole thing to now be resolved, neat and tidy. But I realised that it can't be that...because humans are messy. This has to be an every day, every hour, every moment decision to trust Jesus with everything, no matter what. Due to being inherently sinful apart from Jesus, and having my old man constantly warring against my new man, I can't expect to just be perfect in this area (or any area) from this day onward.
Yet I wonder if the mindset of thinking we must have "altars" of a sort in our Christian walks is why many people get discouraged and disheartened in their relationships with Jesus. They subconciously think, "Oh, I've sacrificed my will now, it shouldn't be a bother any longer", but lo and behold, the next morning it rears its ugly head and they wonder what happened.
In Romans 7, Paul tells of his struggle with sin...one that I'm sure every follower of Jesus can relate to. "For what I am doing, I do not understand. For what I will to do, that I do not practice; but what I hate, that I do...For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh) nothing good dwells; for to will is present with me, but how to perform what is good I do not find. For the good that I will to do, I do not do; but the evil I will not to do, that I practice. Now if I do what I will not to do, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells in me....For I delight in the law of God according to the inward man. But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members. O wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? I thank God-through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, with the mind I myself serve the law of God, but with the flesh the law of sin." (Romans 7:15, 18-20, 22-25)
Basically...it's constant war. In you. Between good and evil, light and dark. Shaun Groves has a song entitled "Twilight" and the first verse is so true.
"Like the sky before the dawn
While the night is holding on
Sun and moon together in the gray
So my soul is shared by two
The worst of me, the best of You
Saint and sinner mingle in my veins
And I pray You'll end this twillight"
Yes...it's twilight...one that is hopefully every day becoming more light than dark...but it won't be completely light until we're finally Home. And by making "altars" at key points in our spiritual lives can feed the lie that, after this breaking point, we won't ever struggle with this particular sin again. Granted, that particular struggle hopefully taught you something and drew you closer to Jesus, but chances are, that temptation will come up again. And again. And again.
And the only way to combat it is to constantly be coming back to Jesus...every time. Broken, needy, hopeless without Him...the only way we can fight anything is through Him...for in our weakness, He is strong. Without Jesus, we can do nothing.
"I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing." ~John 15:5
Last night was kind of a breaking point for me in regards to some things. I've been struggling with trusting God in regards to my friendships with close friends back in the States (since I can only communicate with them through e-mail or chatting or calling...and I so much just want to be with my close friends in person). And I realised that it was because I was afraid if I let go of those friendships and placed them in God's hands, then He might let us grow apart or something like that. Thinking and praying about that brought tears, and after crying myself into an exhaustion, I realised that I had to just place my friendships in God's hands and trust. Trust that whatever He brings about in them is good because He is always good and His plan is perfect. It's scary, but it's also incredibly comforting since I know that me thinking that I could keep my friendships together by being "in control" of them was all just an illusion...I can't do anything on my own.
With all of these realisations (though I already knew all of them...but I didn't really KNOW them), I essentially wanted an altar. I wanted to submit it all to Jesus and say, "From here on out, I will trust You completely with everything". As a very dear friend noted when I was telling her about it, it's because I hate unresolved things. And she's right, I wanted this whole thing to now be resolved, neat and tidy. But I realised that it can't be that...because humans are messy. This has to be an every day, every hour, every moment decision to trust Jesus with everything, no matter what. Due to being inherently sinful apart from Jesus, and having my old man constantly warring against my new man, I can't expect to just be perfect in this area (or any area) from this day onward.
Yet I wonder if the mindset of thinking we must have "altars" of a sort in our Christian walks is why many people get discouraged and disheartened in their relationships with Jesus. They subconciously think, "Oh, I've sacrificed my will now, it shouldn't be a bother any longer", but lo and behold, the next morning it rears its ugly head and they wonder what happened.
In Romans 7, Paul tells of his struggle with sin...one that I'm sure every follower of Jesus can relate to. "For what I am doing, I do not understand. For what I will to do, that I do not practice; but what I hate, that I do...For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh) nothing good dwells; for to will is present with me, but how to perform what is good I do not find. For the good that I will to do, I do not do; but the evil I will not to do, that I practice. Now if I do what I will not to do, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells in me....For I delight in the law of God according to the inward man. But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members. O wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? I thank God-through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, with the mind I myself serve the law of God, but with the flesh the law of sin." (Romans 7:15, 18-20, 22-25)
Basically...it's constant war. In you. Between good and evil, light and dark. Shaun Groves has a song entitled "Twilight" and the first verse is so true.
"Like the sky before the dawn
While the night is holding on
Sun and moon together in the gray
So my soul is shared by two
The worst of me, the best of You
Saint and sinner mingle in my veins
And I pray You'll end this twillight"
Yes...it's twilight...one that is hopefully every day becoming more light than dark...but it won't be completely light until we're finally Home. And by making "altars" at key points in our spiritual lives can feed the lie that, after this breaking point, we won't ever struggle with this particular sin again. Granted, that particular struggle hopefully taught you something and drew you closer to Jesus, but chances are, that temptation will come up again. And again. And again.
And the only way to combat it is to constantly be coming back to Jesus...every time. Broken, needy, hopeless without Him...the only way we can fight anything is through Him...for in our weakness, He is strong. Without Jesus, we can do nothing.
"I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing." ~John 15:5