The Ko's advice on self-transformation

[samurai_ko]

This is something of a follow-up to my rant the other day.  The girl who's a fan of mine who thought I was rejecting her because of her Asperger's sent me one of the most "woe is me" messages I have ever seen in my life.  I won't post the details here, but because I know there are a lot of people who read my LJ who are going through problems in

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[dragonwrangler]

Great advice. I love the list suggestion-- that's where I got into trouble, by not looking at myself and saying- Here's what I'm dealing with and this is what I can do about it. It's hard (at first) to be completely honest with yourself, but it helps so much when you can. Hope it helps the girl out and thanks for sharing your response with us.

[morgankit]

I was going to apologize for showing you the situation without dealing with any of it myself first - still, you always come through on the more important issues.

Thanks for posting your response in this form, also. ♥

[lilith_queen]

Wow. That right there is some damned good advice.

Also, I know the writer on ff.net whereof you speak. I also happen to have Asperger's, but that's no excuse for acting as stupid as she does. (It's also no excuse for writing as badly as she does, but that's irrelevant.) *shakes head sadly* Glad she seems to have wisen up a little.