So i'm sure everyone has either heard or figured out that my grandfather died. i went up north for a couple days. whatever i dont want to talk about it
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i think its only a secret if you think of it as one. There are things about me that i dont tell joey, because frankly i dont want to, but im sure if he asked me about those things id tell him. So not techinically a secret...
I think witholding information that is pertinent to the relationship would be wrong, but if it really doesnt concern the other person than its not so big a deal and those things are valueable in maintaining identiy outside of your relationship.
thats just how i see it though, every relationship has its own set of rules that works for it.
I feel Mike really knows almost everything about me, but there are a few things that I don't tell him but they don't at all effect our relationship so I think it's fine.
And if some one tells me "Don't tell anyone, even Mike" then I wont tell him. I'm a pretty great secret keeper.
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I think witholding information that is pertinent to the relationship would be wrong, but if it really doesnt concern the other person than its not so big a deal and those things are valueable in maintaining identiy outside of your relationship.
thats just how i see it though, every relationship has its own set of rules that works for it.
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I feel Mike really knows almost everything about me, but there are a few things that I don't tell him but they don't at all effect our relationship so I think it's fine.
And if some one tells me "Don't tell anyone, even Mike" then I wont tell him. I'm a pretty great secret keeper.
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