To go home/What is "In Love"?

[sacredpsycho]

Slowly my head is getting into a more comfortable place. I've read a lot of studies on grief and apparently I am supposed to get angry with someone for dying, at some point. It's not happening. Instead I cherish what I have left, handling the people I love with extremely gentle words. They are worried but there is no need to be

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[teflonspyder]

It's just words for things. If you're using a definition that isn't yours, you can't really own your feelings. It's OK to love things. If you're having such a hard time coming up with a way to describe a boundary or difference between internal states, maybe you should look at whether or not that boundary actually exists at all.

[sacredpsycho]

It does not exist. If that makes people I love uncomfortable... if I am too familiar then that's tough. They don't live in here.

What are you doin reading LJ? Visiting the dead?

[teflonspyder]

Sometimes I remember to check up on these things. No real reason.