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[sabaceanbabe]

Do you guys ever feel paralyzed by self-doubt and over thinking things? Stemming from real life and bleeding over into fannish life. It’s gone from the realization during interviewing candidates for my assistant’s replacement that they’re all - ALL - better qualified for my job than I am, to reading fic (and published novels) or watching vids and

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[needtakehave]

Yes, I do!

How I deal with it is I tell myself that I don't need to be as good as someone else, I have plenty to offer with my own talents and I need to be happy being me, flaws and faults and all :)

It USUALLY works :)

[sabaceanbabe]

Heh. Sage advice, that. :D

[needtakehave]

Well, see the way I look at it is --- I have to be happy living with myself before I can be happy with anyone else, or the world at large.

How will I be able to do anything, be anything, whatever if I can't stand myself?

[vipersweb]

Yeah... I've been in that boat for months now. *hugs* Hopefully, it will get better, for you and me!

[sabaceanbabe]

Aw, I'm sorry to hear that and I hope it gets better soon for you, too! *hugs*

[mfirefly10]

Yes, and way too often.

[sabaceanbabe]

*hugs you tight*

[mfirefly10]

On the plus side, it always turns around :)

[aruna7]

Yes, it happens. Often. >.>

*sends good vibes to your self esteem and pets you*

[sabaceanbabe]

*preens*

Thank you. *hug*

[lee_in_limbo]

You are a fantastic writer. One of my favourites. There are no qualifications that impress me more than just reading your writing and being there.

[sabaceanbabe]

*clings*

[lee_in_limbo]

*HUGE HUGS*