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[rush24]

Our pastor started a new series on marriage today. and where to start is the foundation. after hearing all 5 parts of the foundation, i starting thinking, mine is very shaky. I then start wondering if i want to firm it up. i keep thinking back, i try to firm it up it seems to make a difference for a few months then it all slips back to where it

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[sweetcharity]

My brother went through the same exact thing you are , for 23 years. Finally after their last child was out of the house ( they had 5) he told her he wanted a divorce. She was shocked! She had had been totally content all those years she had no idea he wasn't. They are very religious and she was completely involved in the church and with her kids which was wonderful but it left very little time for him :( He remarried within 2 years after the divorce and here it is 10 years later (he's 53 now) and he is sill very much in love with his second wife :) His first wife remarried too and is also very happy. She appologized to my brother at some point in time, years after they had both been remarried. She realized now what a good marriage was supposed to be like. See they never hated each other, they were both faithful, good parents but they were both so selfless they never stopped to even think if they were happy or not.

:)