to respond to you KU internal debate, perhaps this will help settle your mind: they might not have been the best reasons at the time, but that also does not mean that KU is not the right school for you. if you are enjoying yourself, and getting what you want out of your college years, then yes it was the right decision. obviously, it can be hard to tell in just your second semester. and as for people leaving... just cause they're leaving doesn't mean the friendship has to end. yes, you most likely won't see them as much, but they still exist, and if you both make the effort, there's no real reason that someone has to be gone from your life simply because they graduated. or you can always try my method: hug their leg and don't let them walk away (my grand-big is graduating this semester, and that's my plan right now). and i know a lot of transfers, and in all honesty, people are nice. they want to get to know you. hope my ramble-y comment helps :)
Sometimes I wonder about the different things that could have happened too. But I think more about the different things that can happen, and the ways I can work towards the ones I like best =D
Lambykins, all I can say is follow your heart. Not in the "follow mike" way (hah, though he may be your heart) I mean, follow what you want. I did a similar thing in picking West Chester, in not applying to other schools, in not even looking at them. I should have looked at Penn State, I should have looked at a lot of places, and I didn't. So, when I ended up at a place that wasn't where I wanted to be I just had to change things. Its scary, but sometimes thats what is the most worth it. coming home and transferring, I was scared shitless, I still am, but I know its where I want to be, and that this time I'm making the decision for me. I promise as scary as it is, its worth it. So, I know you say you don't know whats right for you, but just do some thinking and searching, and you'll find it. And when you find it, just go for it, because this is life, and there isn't time to waste being unhappy.
thank you. I just don't know if transfering is the right thing for me either, I just kinda feel like I may have cheated myself out of looking at other schools and such. I'm going to look at other places over this semester, maybe transfer for next...I don't know though. I just don't know
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they might not have been the best reasons at the time, but that also does not mean that KU is not the right school for you. if you are enjoying yourself, and getting what you want out of your college years, then yes it was the right decision. obviously, it can be hard to tell in just your second semester. and as for people leaving... just cause they're leaving doesn't mean the friendship has to end. yes, you most likely won't see them as much, but they still exist, and if you both make the effort, there's no real reason that someone has to be gone from your life simply because they graduated. or you can always try my method: hug their leg and don't let them walk away (my grand-big is graduating this semester, and that's my plan right now). and i know a lot of transfers, and in all honesty, people are nice. they want to get to know you.
hope my ramble-y comment helps :)
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I just still don't know what's right for me :/
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Sometimes I wonder about the different things that could have happened too. But I think more about the different things that can happen, and the ways I can work towards the ones I like best =D
Wanna play some Frisbee in the summer-time?
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So, I know you say you don't know whats right for you, but just do some thinking and searching, and you'll find it. And when you find it, just go for it, because this is life, and there isn't time to waste being unhappy.
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I just don't know if transfering is the right thing for me either, I just kinda feel like I may have cheated myself out of looking at other schools and such. I'm going to look at other places over this semester, maybe transfer for next...I don't know though. I just don't know
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