Shidduchim, AGAIN

[ruchel]

 I'm OH SO FRUSTRATED about shadchanim who wanna work with me but I have to run after them for news, of people changing their criteria suddenly and drastically, of people lying, of so-called charedim going mixed swimming and demanding a charedi mixed swimming shidduch, of people saying they're desperate to find a wife/husband but refusing to travel

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I think it must be like teaching

[anonymous]

You have to focus on the 1 in 5, 1 in 10, maybe only 1 in 25 whose life you change for the better. If you focus on the frustration and irritation and the people who seem impossible, so keep your mind on the success stories. Even if you in your entire life help only one person find their beshert, you've done an amazing thing!
WriterMom

Re: I think it must be like teaching

[ruchel]

thank you!