Toilet training issues

[ruchel]

My dd now goes on the toilets (with 'reducing' seat) at home.

She just sleeps and naps with a diaper. But at her caregiver she refuses to go on toilets, because she thinks they are nasty. I have never seen the toilets there but plan to pretend to have to go and check them. I'm surprised because the house is spotless!

She also says she will go

Comments

[teacup9]

She can go at home but chooses not to a daycare? Then I'd say send her to pre-gan anyway. Worst case they kick her out and your are back to where you are now.

[ruchel]

true...

[teacup9]

She probably gets extra attention at home and at day care when someone has to take time out to change her. At school hopefully getting changed will be less desirable than being a part of the lesson. The school probably says "fully potty trained" just to scare off the kids who aren't ready. From everything you've said she understands the connection and has biological control. Now she just need motivation and of course accidents do happen.

[yeishlitikvah]

most parents say 'oh my kid is toilet trained' and just send the kid with spare clothes.

send her to school don't worry about it, peer pressure is very powerful.

[ruchel]

oooh... maybe I'll do that.