A grey misty moody day

[roy_gato]

Once again i find myself sittin here wondering why im even considering venting online. I spoze i find myself at a loss and with alot of wierd pent up frustration this is easier than snapping and jabbering incoherently at home. I love it when i answer myself

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[inkie]

If there is one thing that I've learned in three marriages and two divorces.. is that if the other person thinks that counselling is crap, then they're not going to listen or actually do the things that the counsellor wants you to do. It's unfortunate, because most of what they do is get you to talk, which people seem to have a hard time doing on their own. Any chance of getting a good, honest, opening-up sorta conversation going without a mediator? My last marriage went on for quite some time with my husband coming home to my barely tolerant attitude.. with me basically being only a thin line over civility.. until things were completely dead. ( in my defense, I had that attitude for good reason ) We *never* talked about how things were until after he left though. And things were pretty horrible.

You're a good guy.. and no matter what you think.. a very sweet guy :P Allow yourself a little happiness, but understand that even happiness takes a lot of work. :)