Instead of doing useful stuff that I should accomplish, I'm typing. This is all the fault of Battlestar Galactica. I have thoughts about Anastasia Dualla, dating and "cheating." I'm going to share them whether you like it or not.
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spoilers through season 2 of BSG )
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And the "you LET me propose to you" always drove me nuts too! It was such a shame that Billy annoyed me so much in his final episode, heh.
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Yeah! Because I liked Billy and thought he made a good foil for Roslin.*
I get why people felt invested in the Dee/Billy relationship. It kept Dee away from Lee. They were sweet together and worked as a symbol of hope for humanity. But the idea that Dee has some special obligation to Billy is irritating.
*Which is NOT to say that I didn't appreciate Tory. (I just wanted to say that because so many people who complain about Tory start with "But Billy was better!" and that's annoying.)
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(My sad admission is that I may have turned all "meh" toward Billy because of all the Dee-bashing and Tory-bashing in his honor.)
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Could Dee have told Billy she was interested in someone else before he proposed? Yeah, sure. Would have been nice. I don't think she was being dishonest by not telling Billy anything, though. Hard to know how much she knew about his feelings; she didn't get to see him every day and they were running for their lives. If I'm going to dole out blame for the misunderstanding, they both get a portion of it.
Should she have told him after he proposed? SHE WASN'T EXPECTING IT. The proposal obviously surprised her, and refusing his proposal was about all she could manage.
Billy knew he was moving fast anyway. And RDM was setting up Billy's death to be as sad as possible.Dee married Lee because she loved him and was optimistic about the future. I do blame Lee for misleading her; proposing at that moment was QUITE ( ... )
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We don't know that he didn't. That's the thing. What if they had been exclusive? Just because we didn't see the conversation, doesn't mean it didn't happen.
Could Dee have told Billy she was interested in someone else before he proposed?
I wasn't saying that. I meant it would have been nice after the proposal. Even surprised, she had a date that very night. Even surprised it still doesn't feel as honest as it could be to me.
proposing at that moment was QUITE POSSIBLY THE STUPIDEST THING LEE ADAMA EVER DID.
*chuckles* I can not disagree with this. Oh, my poor kids. Poor choices about romance was their forte, unfortunately.
Did she know he had feelings for Kara in the past? Yup. Did she believe he had moved on? Yeah.Then I'm confused. Why were you mad that they showed these very feelings in UBEX? Are you mad at the show for showing Dee's feelings or are you mad at Lee for proposing? I'm confused ( ... )
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*sigh* Yes. I was talking upthread about the Nice Guy syndrome and how prevalent it is. Possibly some of the writers really did feel like Dee owed him something, and that would make me sad. (Especially since BSG generally did pretty good at avoiding Nice Guy syndrome most of the time.)
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Thanks for commenting!
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(and, for context, earlier in season two, during VoD, there was a whole thing where Dee and Billy were sort of at odds, Billy was all "well, um, we can break up, then" and Dee suddenly changed her mind and was all "no, no, kiss me, you fool"--so there is a sort of frustrating feeling that their signals really are crossed a lot)
BUT. BUT.
I'm perfectly ok with her saying nothing, because they're in different places and it makes her human.
Also. Dee didn't let Billy do anything, so he can shove it--even if he was hurting and just realizing that she meant what she'd said.
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The cheating label, though--that's way too harsh for this situation. (Hence my irritation finally leading to a post.) Bad communication =/= cheating.
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