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romanticalgirl

Sex, sugar and the flist.

Feb 14, 2011 09:41

I've slept badly the past couple of nights, in the fun ebb and flow of my anxieties. I think I might be gritting my teeth, but I'm not sure, but it would explain some of the headache-y feelings, I suppose.

I had a dream last night and ( cut for dream talk of a semi-sexual nature )

silly monkeys

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inlovewithnight February 14 2011, 17:48:34 UTC

♥ ♥ ♥

romanticalgirl February 14 2011, 17:50:28 UTC

A list of reasons why I love you would take days and days, so I will just say you are one of my most dearest and beloved friends, and I really don't know what my life would be like without you, and I don't want to know, because you've helped me through so much.

inlovewithnight February 14 2011, 17:51:04 UTC

Mutual. ::hugs::

sparky77 February 14 2011, 18:07:06 UTC

Me!!!!!

And I love you for many, many reasons starting with your fundamental awesomeness and ending with you fundamental adorableness and somewhere in the middle is your kindness, strength, and all around amazingness.

romanticalgirl February 14 2011, 18:09:31 UTC

I love you for so many reasons: You do amazing work and you're so heartfelt and empathetic and you really care so much about the people/kids you work with and I know it's hard for you, but you have to do it, and that makes you one of the bravest people I know.

Also, you're funny and smart and sharp and you write so well, and you do humor, which is the hardest thing and you give the best Ray Person around.

sparky77 February 15 2011, 16:46:37 UTC

Warm fuzzies all around :)

turps33 February 14 2011, 18:12:42 UTC

Me please!

♥

romanticalgirl February 14 2011, 18:15:45 UTC

It would be so so easy to say that I love you for your pure, undiluted love of Mikeyway and the great gift of posting pictures of him that you share with us all. Because I totally love you for that, but I also love that you're smart and funny and sweet and a devoted mom and you write really hot porn and you always take time to comment on people's posts and offer support and encouragement. ♥

turps33 February 14 2011, 20:29:38 UTC

This is such a lovely thing to read. Thank you!

As for you, I love that while I first found you through fic, I've come to see that you're so much more than that. I love that you so obviously love your family, even though things sometimes get tough, and that you're so incredibly giving and determined.

You always have such interesting things to say, and most of all I feel comfortable in your space, knowing that you don't judge.

Really I think you're kind of awesome ♥

romanticalgirl February 14 2011, 20:36:20 UTC

I think the fact that you feel comfortable here is the nicest thing anyone's ever said to me. The awesomeness is mutual. <3<3<3

anoneknewmoose February 14 2011, 18:19:26 UTC

Pretty sure that means you're stressed IRL. SHOCKING. That's very helpful of your brain to let you know that.

Also ♥.

romanticalgirl February 14 2011, 18:40:38 UTC

I don't think I would have noticed, brain! Thank you so much! It's good that it's there for me!

I love you because you are smart and sweet and funny and you adore Ray Toro and his thighs and you talk about awesome things like slave boys and bondage and were there for me during a tough time with understanding and support. Also, Ray Toro's thighs. (it bears repeating)

harborshore February 14 2011, 19:18:27 UTC

Me please! ♥

And I have a lot of reasons to be very very fond of you indeed--your sex-positivity is one of them, and your strength and stubbornness are other.

romanticalgirl February 14 2011, 20:42:39 UTC

I remember the first time I came across your stuff was your Lyn-Z/William fic of complete GUH. Mmmmm. I also love that you talk about books and you feel impassioned about things and you aren't afraid to speak your mind. I love that you want to go see the Truckers, even if they were mean and got sick on you. I love the way you seem at peace with yourself and determined to enjoy life. Also that you post pictures of pretty girls. :D

harborshore February 14 2011, 20:59:17 UTC

*beams* High praise indeed, coming from you. ♥ But OH man, that story, it's--apparently I can only write porn if it's Lyn-Z POV.

And ♥, so much, for the rest. I don't know that I feel at peace with myself as much as I just really think I have the right to be and I think women in general don't feel that way about themselves and they too have the right to, so I can project.

There can totally never be too many photos of pretty girls. (Also, ha, the other day torakowalski said "So what if Laena had a tattoo that really only showed when she played the violin because of how she stood when she did that?" Because she likes to reduce me to incoherency when I'm at work.)

romanticalgirl February 15 2011, 00:01:02 UTC

I dated this guy once that put me through a horrible experience, and when I came out the other side, I had a mantra that I try very hard to live by: "There is only so much room in my head, so it's very valuable property. I don't let anyone live their rent free". I can't ask someone else to be my advocate if I won't advocate for myself. I have to believe I'm of as much value as I want other people to believe me of. Projection is A+ in my book. :D

...also, you know, feel free to write more William/Lyn-Z. That'd be A+ too.