Nah, that's not pathetic. It's normal. Everyone wonders "what if" and because you never acted on your feelings you'll always wonder. And if she's single..you could ask her out. The worst she could say is no.
The question is whether she's single. I'd feel really weird calling her house. I can't even remember where she went to college. She might still be away at college, depending on whether she's taking more than four years. Or she might have moved out. If her parents say, "She doesn't live here anymore," I'd really have nothing to say.
Even if she did move back in home after college... she very likely has some sort of significant other. I'd feel like such a stalker-dweeb calling her up after so long. If I ran into her somewhere, it'd be different.
I haven't felt like a dweeb like that since high school. I don't think I'd enjoy taking that kind of risk.
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Even if she did move back in home after college... she very likely has some sort of significant other. I'd feel like such a stalker-dweeb calling her up after so long. If I ran into her somewhere, it'd be different.
I haven't felt like a dweeb like that since high school. I don't think I'd enjoy taking that kind of risk.
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