LESSONS: Communication is Simply Conversational Sex

[rodillon]

To: JESSICA JAYMES
From: Rod
Date: Feb 9, 2006 7:04 PM
Subject: Conversational Sex, Conversational BDSM, Communication

Hey Jessica,

I thought I'd pass this information on that I collected during one of my Divination Readings.

It pertains directly to:

• Sex
  
• Mind
  
• BDSM
  

I figured since you seem to be into that, you may want an Intellectual Perspective on how Sex and Communication are intertwined.

As I keep telling everyone. it's all about Sex.

That's why people should stop looking down on the Adult Industry because they're hypocrites engaging in sexual acts every day.

Rod

Conversational Sex
I decided to elaborate on Conversational Sex that I'd mentioned in my previous post.

I said 1/21/2006 that Communication is Sex:

1. SELFISH CONVERSATIONAL LOVERS: Selfish "Conversational Lovers" are the ones who only want to talk about themselves. They don't listen to you. They just keep on talking. That's the same thing as a guy who just keeps on fucking you and isn't even paying attention to you, whether you like it, if he's doing it wrong, or whether you're comfortable. He's just pounding away at you and doesn't care. You might as well be a blow-up doll.
   
   Someone who dominates the conversation and wants to get the ir rocks off and don't care about their partner. That's like a guy who just wants to fuck and cum. Women are guilty of that jsut like men. That's where you can get geeky and socially inept geeks and nerds that are like women in that respect.
   
   
2. GOOD CONVERSATIONAL LOVERS: Good "Conversational Lovers" are the ones who are attentive to their other partner's needs and do their best to please them and talk about what they like to talk about. They listen to their partner. They make sure the partner is comfortable. They learn about what their partner likes or dislikes.
   
   Same with Sex and giving women foreplay. Conversational Foreplay is making chit chat. It's where you start off with light stuff rather than going straight into the main course. You have appetizers.
   
   An attentive Conversational Partners are keepers. You'll know because they listen to you and they accept new ideas or trying new things. I listen and try to remember personal details about who I'm conversing with. People should do that as well.
   
   
3. BAD CONVERSATIONAL SEX: Bad Sex is when you perform a Sex act they don't like. Bad "Conversational Sex" is when you talk about subjects they don't like either pissing them off. That's like giving someone painful anal sex and where it hurts. They don't like that kind of sex. It leaves them going away with a bad feeling.
   
   A lot of Spiritualists give "Bad Religious Anal Sex." The way they do it is so painful and they're so "big" that when they give it to you, it just makes you want to cry out in pain and want them to get it over and done with.
   
   Good Conversational Anal Sex is when people ease you into it, make sure they lube you up so that you aren't dry and work into it slowly.
   
   I had a friend who did Anal Sex for the first time and the guy had a 10" Cock. Should it come as a surprise that she doesn't like Anal?
   
   If it's done wrong, it can be one of the worst experiences ever. You don't want to go through it again. That's why if you know how to give Good Conversational Anal, you'll get poeple who will enjoy it.
   
   
4. CONVERSATIONAL ANGRY SEX: People who enjoy fighting with each other and engage in fiery debates are engaging in "Conversational Angry Sex" :). It's where they like getting angry and enjoy jabbing and insulting each other. Politicians like to engage in "Conversational Angry Sex" all the time.
   
   
5. CONVERSATIONAL ROUGH SEX: Heated debators that like to get the juices flowing are engaging in "Conversational Rough Sex." Scientists in heated debates or people passionate about a topic really like to "drill the point home."
   
   
6. INEXPERIENCED CONVERSATIONAL LOVERS: Those are the ones where your partner and you don't have any chemistry. The conversation goes dead. It means that there was very little action and after that tiny Conversational Orgasm, that's it. Those are boring Conversation Lovers.
   
   
7. KINKY CONVERSATIONAL LOVERS: Those are the Conversational Lovesr whose topics are wacky and bizarre. When people joke around about off the wall topics and where both of them are having a good time being silly, that's Kinky Conversational Sex
   
   
8. CONVERSATIONAL MASTURBATION: Talking to yourself. Brainstorming.
   
   
9. CONVERSATIONAL MILF: Older woman talking to a younger male.
   
   
10. CONVERSATIONAL HOMOSEXUALITY: Two people of the same gender engaged in conversation.
    
    
11. CONVERSATIONAL LESBIAN: It's where your the Conversational Lover is good at receiving but doesn't can't plant seeds of thought in the individual. In order to plant ideas in someone's mind, you need to be able to give ideas. If you don't have any ideas or anything to contribute, that's like being a Conversational Lesbian. You can use Conversational Dildos or Toys, but that's about it.
    
    
12. CONVERSATIONAL BESTIALITY: Engaging in a conversation with your pet and the pet barks, meows, or chirps in response :).
    
    
13. BAD CONVERSATIONAL INCEST: Having a conversation with a family member.
    
    
14. CONVERSATIONAL DILDO: That's when you use a tool or aid in order to induce an Intellectual Orgasm. Re-reading your own poetry, awards, or Thank-You notes that make you happy would be a Conversational Dildo.
    
    
15. BAD CONVERSATIONAL KY JELLY: When people trying to give you Conversational Anal Sex use tools to aid them in their presentation they're giving you. Direct Sales and Door to Door Salespeople use Converssational KY Jelly in the form of Pamphlets. Same with Religioius People who go door to door trying to ask you about God :o).
    
    
16. CONVERSATIONAL VIAGRA: It's where you're using a Stimulant allowing you to last longer. When you do an oral presentation and it has to be 30 minutes, the resources and information where you got your information is Informational Viagra that allows you to last for 30 minutes rather than be finished in 2 :).
    
    
17. FUNNY CONVERSATIONAL LOVERS: That's Conversational Sex where you're talking to your partner and they have puzzled looks because they're confused or lost. That's the equivalent of people making funny faces during Sex :o).
    
    
18. CONVERSATIONAL RAPISTS: Those are people who are being verbally and emotionally abusive. Those are the ones who are cussing you out, swearing, and calling you all kinds of derogatory names about how stuipid or dumb you are. They're demoralizing you. That's rape. When someone succeeds in convincing you that you're dumb, stupid, or worthless, that's rape and where they succeed in getting you pregnant with thought or having the rapist's child.
    
    
19. GOOD CONVERSATIONAL GANGBANG: That's where a group of people are directing their conversation at one individual. Teachers are getting Intellectually Gangbanged by their Students asking questions
    
    
20. CONVERSATIONAL GANGRAPE: A group of people that gang up on one individual and start cursing that person out and being mean to that individual calling them all sorts of bad things. They're being cruel. That's where they've tied the person down and raping that individual. Women are guilty of Conversational Gangbangs when they gang up on one male and verbally abuse him. So it's where Women can be guilty of Intellectual Gangbanging.
    
    I've had personal experiences where Women branding me as a Stalker were trying to Intellectual Gangrape me and convince me of that, but I told them to fuck off and beat the shit out of them using Mental Martial Arts and take on multiple attackers. That's why it's always good to take Intellectual Self-Defense Classes.
    
    
21. COMPLIMENTARY CONVERSATIONAL LOVERS: Those are the ones that shower you with compliments. However, Conversational Orgasms are just like regular Orgasms. If you're used to having a lot of people compliment you, you aren't as impressed. If you aren't used to being complimented, youll have intense Conversational Orgasms.
    
    Attractive women are used to being showered with Compliments by guys. That's why they don't have as intense of a Conversational Orgasm when someone gives them a compliment.
    
    
22. CONVERSATIONAL BDSM: In sex, hardcore sexaholics usually start moving into BDSM. They work with sensory deprivation. They mix Pain and Pleasure during sex to elicit a more intense experience. Conversational BDSM sometimes has to be used on Attractive Women because they're so used to being complimented and showered with sugary sweet comments by guys.
    
    So when a guy comes in and insults them or treats them badly, it puts them off guard and is something different. That's Conversational BDSM taking effect. There's too much of the sweet compliments (Pleasure) and the insults and harsh treatment (Pain) balances it out.
    
    In my case, my conversational topics are like "Conversatoinal BDSM." I talk about hardcore stuff and you need to have the Intellectual Stamina to keep up with me else I'll run you ragged and make your brain hurt the next morning :P. If you can keep up with me and understand what I'm saying, I can give you the best Intellectual Orgasm of your Life that will last you for hours or even days because you'll still be thinking and "cumming" from all that thought.
    
    
23. CONVERSATIONAL DOMS: Blunt people are good at Conversational BDSM. They just say things without thinking about whether their partner will like it or not. The best person is a Conversational Sub. They don't get along with other Conversational Doms because it's a fight for control over th Conversation
    
    
24. CONVERSATIONAL SUBS: That's someone who is naturally submissive and easy going during Sex. They get along best with Conversational Doms. Conversational Subs can get along with other subs, but sometimes it can lead to both being indecisive.
    
    
25. CONVERSATIONAL IRON SUBS: These are people who want to be dominated in the Conversation, but they make it intentionally hard and want the person to work for it. They won't just give it up easily. It could be where they're just testing you.
    
    
26. CONVERSATIONAL COCKTEASE: That's someone who makes it seem like they're interested in a certain topic, but then switches to another topic leading you on. People testing others to see what kind of answer the person will give to a question would be a Conversatioanl Cocktease. They're not interested in Conversatoinal Sex with you.
    
    

I once said that Sex is in the Mind. I may be a Virgin in Real Life, but I know more about Sex on a Spiritual and Cosmic Level that would blow most people's minds.

That's the bulk of it. I may work on this list some more later if I have time and perfect it.