Ry, not Rachel.

May 30, 2009 14:54

OKAY BECAUSE I AM IN A GOOD MOOD TODAY AND NOT COMPLETELY NEUROTIC, I FEEL LIKE I CAN POST THIS.

DEAREST FRIENDS AND ACQUAINTANCES, BOTH ONLINE AND IRL

please stop calling me rachel.I-IT IS ACTUALLY BEGINNING TO MAKE ME TWITCHY AND HONESTLY UNCOMFORTABLE as I associate "Rachel" (and "Rachia" even moreso) with myself when I was young and stupid ( Read more... )

life, what's in a name?, i am not a crazy person! probably.

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moffit May 30 2009, 19:20:43 UTC
I can understand, pretty much. My first name is Donna but it's the same as my dad's mom. It got very confusing to hear my name called and get a "not you" most of the time. So I asked my mom if I could go by my middle name instead, and have ever since. :Db

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alexander May 30 2009, 19:22:51 UTC
I guess I think it sounds totally normal.

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rhymed May 30 2009, 19:25:06 UTC
I imagine mostly people I work with or am related to who will be reading this on Facebook are going to think I am crazy.

But that's okay.

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alexander May 30 2009, 19:34:00 UTC
I guess namechanging, I think, shouldn't sound weird to anyone. The gender thing might surprise some people but if they think you're crazy then they probably have some issues.

I GUESS I JUST VOTE FOR NORMALCY

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rhymed May 30 2009, 19:38:29 UTC
Well I think more the CHILDHOOD NAME vs ADULTHOOD NAME could sound batshit to some people but idkkkkk i tie up a lot of my identiy in what people call me, and lately I've actually felt PHYSICALLY UNCOMFORTABLE when people, especially online, have called me Rachel. So. WHATEVER \o/

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apology May 30 2009, 19:26:57 UTC
I did the same thing with "Jae".

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robowolf May 30 2009, 19:27:19 UTC
AS SOMEONE WHO'S TOTALLY MESSED WITH HER NAME A LOT I totally get this, yes. I actually always think of you as "Rose".

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rhymed May 30 2009, 19:29:02 UTC
Despite the aforementioned gendering thing, I am actually completely fine with being called and thought of as Rose! ♥

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robowolf May 30 2009, 19:32:09 UTC
ROSEKEN 8D

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rhymed May 30 2009, 19:33:27 UTC
...I'm not sure if that's better or worse than Firose.

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hitode May 30 2009, 19:29:10 UTC
You'll always be JJ to me. XD

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rhymed May 30 2009, 19:31:59 UTC
JJ IS TOTALLY ACCEPTABLE AS WELL |DD

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