Bisexual, male-leaning (as in, there are women I am attracted to ...obviously... and such, but I am more likely to have my eye caught by a passing good looking man than woman. I've been in a committed relationship for four year now -- today is our anniversary! -- and so I don't think about relationships with others, really ^^a) and I put down "other" as gender, because yeah.
I am female in body and fine with that, but I don't...think about it often, and don't really feel "girly", ever. I don't feel boyish, either, but. Well. I just feel...meish.
...although sometimes I think saying "I don't think about my gender" just means I am comfortable in it, and so I don't have to. Maybe. Idk my brain is sort of off right now.
I REALLY KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN ABOUT NOT FEELING GIRLY OR BOYISH. I mean. I fit female gender stereotypes in that I fuss over hair and makeup and have way too much clothing, but I don't feel girly, even when I'm in the middle of, say, spending an entire paycheck on clothing and makeup. Nor do I feel boyish when I spend hours doing what society deems "boy things" - enjoying violent movies, binging on beat-em-up video games, leaning to pee standing up, scratching my crotch in public.... UH, IGNORE THOSE LAST TWO? loltmi
Sigh, society. Why must you require us all to fit your narrow binary gender system.
I should maybe have put myself down as female-leaning bisexual instead of gay, but the few guys I've been attracted to/had crushlike feelings for are all, uh, fictional. I am such a loser.
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I am female in body and fine with that, but I don't...think about it often, and don't really feel "girly", ever. I don't feel boyish, either, but. Well. I just feel...meish.
...although sometimes I think saying "I don't think about my gender" just means I am comfortable in it, and so I don't have to. Maybe. Idk my brain is sort of off right now.
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I REALLY KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN ABOUT NOT FEELING GIRLY OR BOYISH. I mean. I fit female gender stereotypes in that I fuss over hair and makeup and have way too much clothing, but I don't feel girly, even when I'm in the middle of, say, spending an entire paycheck on clothing and makeup. Nor do I feel boyish when I spend hours doing what society deems "boy things" - enjoying violent movies, binging on beat-em-up video games, leaning to pee standing up, scratching my crotch in public.... UH, IGNORE THOSE LAST TWO? loltmi
Sigh, society. Why must you require us all to fit your narrow binary gender system.
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Yeah, that's pretty much the size of it! [righteous fist shaking!]
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[kerTOUCH]
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LET ME LEAD YOU OVER TO THE DARK ...RAINBOW-COLOURED SIDE???
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THE PROUD
THE LESBIAN
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/drive-by icon love
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