Why?

Dec 09, 2005 08:40


Why is it that when I ask him if this is what he wants, then why does he say I don't know. How could you not know? He sits there and says that we can be together when we're both mature, but I thought that we were maturing together. I don't know what to do. Should I move on? Should I wait? Everyone says that he treats me bad.....everyone says that I ( Read more... )

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ahh love queenmeg December 9 2005, 14:03:43 UTC
First, my dear, decide what YOU want. Weigh the pros vs the cons of a relationship with him and if you really think you both can make it work, stop the B.S. and and work it out then I say go for it. Do what makes you happy but if you suspect that it's just gonna end messy with another heartbreak then it's not worth it and move on. If there's a chance you can work it out, do it :)

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shortygrly December 9 2005, 16:21:51 UTC
Jessica.. You know I've been here.. and it really REALLY sucks.. I know.. And I was SORTA in the same spot also, so I know ALOT of people are telling you to dump his ass and move on.. and then you have people telling you to do what you want.. Well, I'm telling you.. NOT to shut everyone away from you. I did that. I Didnt want people telling me how stupid I was or wasnt.. But friends come and go.. love doesnt. Soo.. I'll leave you with your heart,mind and soul... You make choices not regrets..

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queenmeg December 9 2005, 21:02:57 UTC
Im gonna have to dissagree, your friends are the ones who will alwys be there when a boy cheats and lies, yeah you may always love him but sometimes a relationship is not the best thing for you right now and I said to do what u want because I meant it.

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rhuddawg05 December 9 2005, 21:07:26 UTC
OKay we don't have to argue now ladies. You two just have two different opinions about my situation and that's fine

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shortygrly December 10 2005, 05:05:43 UTC
Yesss, do what YOU want.. but sometimes you're going to have to follow your heart.. your gut instincts and well.. what you want in life. Maybe that does mean NOT having a boyfriend who cheats, lies, or treats you like crap.. but maybe you do and people only know the bad stuff about him.. b/c you know us girls like to tell mainly the shit we go thru.. but heya, it's not me to argue your feelings and wants.. soo listen to whomever you think YOU agree with.. I'm telling you not to shut out your friends, but you dont have to always listen to their advice either..

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