'Ello. I'm the mod over at 123insert. I saw your deleted application- and i'm sorry I missed whatever events led up to you choosing to delete it. Even though I run that place- I agree with what you said. I was wondering if you'd enlighten me a bit to what happened on your application.
Even if you choose not to, I want to personally apologize. Clearly you're upset at something a member of my community did or said, and i'd like to be able to take appropriate action reguarding the incident.
Of course, On your application it asks for the ugliest member. As a response, I put that everyone is beautiful in thier own way. As a result "kissxthexrain" decided to pressure me about my answer, saying it was a copout saying that. I disagreed, and had a small back and forth go at it with her. She couldnt accept the fact that I thought everyone was beautiful. I just put it at rest by putting her name in the spot, even though that's not particularly what I believe. I just didnt want to continue backing myself up, when I clearly had already.
THEN, another girl decided to start at it with me about the arguement kissxthexrainand i had had. At that point, I just didn't want to bother with anyone else, and thought it was too shallow of a community for me to be in.
thats the story. bree.
p.s. You and I used to be friends on my old journal.
Ugh, it really boils my potato when people (i.e. stamped members in this case) take these communities too seriously. I think you were right- and i'm sorry that you were confronted like that. I'm very glad that it seems as though you were tactful and I respect your choice in withdrawing your application. I'm sorry your experience with us wasn't a positive one. :(
oo0o0oo though... what was your old username if you don't mind me asking?
i believe i was firesand_floods when we were friends. i didnt write in it often, from lack of a computer. i think we became friends because we took a liking to each other in an old community i was in (maybe, oh_so_pretty?).
Hey there, just to let you know I'm giving you an auto-accept for radiantpretty. All you need to do it post an application and link back to this comment.
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Even if you choose not to, I want to personally apologize. Clearly you're upset at something a member of my community did or said, and i'd like to be able to take appropriate action reguarding the incident.
Thank you for your time. ^.^
-Watson
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On your application it asks for the ugliest member. As a response, I put that everyone is beautiful in thier own way. As a result "kissxthexrain" decided to pressure me about my answer, saying it was a copout saying that. I disagreed, and had a small back and forth go at it with her. She couldnt accept the fact that I thought everyone was beautiful. I just put it at rest by putting her name in the spot, even though that's not particularly what I believe. I just didnt want to continue backing myself up, when I clearly had already.
THEN, another girl decided to start at it with me about the arguement kissxthexrainand i had had. At that point, I just didn't want to bother with anyone else, and thought it was too shallow of a community for me to be in.
thats the story.
bree.
p.s.
You and I used to be friends on my old journal.
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oo0o0oo though... what was your old username if you don't mind me asking?
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i didnt write in it often, from lack of a computer.
i think we became friends because we took a liking to each other in an old community i was in (maybe, oh_so_pretty?).
thank you for supporting me. :)
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