I need a new pair of glasses.

May 13, 2010 07:49

One thing I really hate is being called not feminist enough or, worse, misogynist. I'm just the right level of feminist (as is everyone else who identifies feminist) and not misogynist at all ( Read more... )

rambling, women in fandom, meta

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katikat May 13 2010, 12:48:25 UTC
This is usually the reaction (direct or indirect) to any claiming of mine that I prefer to write men instead of women because I don't relate to women in most texts/shows.

Amen, sister! I just can't indetify with the way female characters are written in shows. Like, for example, 99% of them don't feel... "fulfilled" until they have a husband and a brood of children - and the 1%? There just has to be something... wrong with them *rolls eyes*

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reddwarfer May 13 2010, 12:49:55 UTC
Exactly. Maybe it's nothing wrong with me and everything wrong with how they're written in the first place.

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glass_icarus May 13 2010, 14:19:19 UTC
&hearts

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reddwarfer May 13 2010, 15:26:31 UTC
♥ ♥

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furiosity May 13 2010, 15:06:06 UTC
The whole "if you don't write women and don't want to write women, you're misogynist/unfeminist" argument pisses me off so hard. It's sanctimonious and nothing else; there is zero value in making such an argument because it wins NO ONE over and accomplishes nothing except make the poster feel proud of her own ~progressiveness~. It always amazes me how many self-proclaimed feminists routinely attempt to forcefully impose their own views on the women around them. >:|

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reddwarfer May 13 2010, 15:27:20 UTC
Just another day of cred-carding for minority groups. Instead of fighting against the real issues, we need to patrol our own and make sure they're "fill-in-the-blank" enough to be counted.

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darth_eldritch May 13 2010, 15:44:52 UTC
I went through a time like this. I found it hard to relate to other women, because of the entire family/fulfullment/juggling career kind of thing that totally turned me off ( ... )

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teleens_journal May 13 2010, 18:13:31 UTC
Amen.

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