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reddwarfer

A Mild Rant...

Oct 12, 2009 23:28

I spent most of National Coming Out Day angry. (And not just because of my beloved teams)

I was angry because coming out has always sucked for me. I'm bisexual. I've always known this about myself. I've dated and have had experiences with both sexes, not that it matters.

But whenever I declare my sexuality (and for some reason, it always comes up ( Read more... )

rant

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tekalynn October 13 2009, 03:47:00 UTC

This.

Yes.

reddwarfer October 13 2009, 03:51:57 UTC

*hugs* :D

tekalynn October 13 2009, 03:57:12 UTC

It's why I don't try to come out often. It's...complicated.

Thanks. *hug*

reddwarfer October 13 2009, 03:58:11 UTC

I always felt disingenuous to lie by omission but I'd never fault anyone for keeping quiet.

sabinelagrande October 13 2009, 03:55:45 UTC

You already know I totally agree.

Also I just want to share that I thought the lettering in your icon said "LIKE" for like ten minutes, and I was seriously wondering wtf that had to do with anything for like ten minutes before I figured it out.

reddwarfer October 13 2009, 03:57:15 UTC

Haha. That's wild words font for you. lol. :D

sabinelagrande October 13 2009, 03:59:12 UTC

::rereads her comment::

I swear to god, this femslash is eating my brain.

reddwarfer October 13 2009, 04:00:37 UTC

Well, it's not like the word "uke" is totally accurate. I actually made the icon because a friend had the same guy with the word "seme" on his chest and it was an injoke between us.

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glass_icarus October 13 2009, 04:12:35 UTC

&hearts *hugs*

reddwarfer October 13 2009, 04:13:34 UTC

&hugs;

inspiredlife October 13 2009, 05:05:52 UTC

okay, so i wrote a post like this a couple of years ago. in fact, i just wasted a ridiculous amount of time looking for it so i could re-read. that being said, i have nothing meaningful to share. just...yes to this. i don't understand why this has to be so fucking complicated? *hugs*

reddwarfer October 13 2009, 05:08:43 UTC

*hugs* Yeah, people suck. *thinks of ny and co and ca*

inspiredlife October 13 2009, 05:19:14 UTC

people do suck. thankfully there's always one or two who do the completely unexpected and surprise you. *retches* so, what's your deal now? done with baseball for the season or still watch the playoffs?

reddwarfer October 13 2009, 05:22:48 UTC

It depends. I generally will watch the teams I want to win instead of the Yankees and root for whomever isn't the Yankees.

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elfwreck October 13 2009, 05:53:14 UTC

I've considered getting one of those t-shirts with the six-inch tall letters that says EVERYBODY THINKS I'M STRAIGHT.

Because, yeah, nothing makes for invisible sexuality like a spouse & kid.

reddwarfer October 13 2009, 05:55:36 UTC

Yeah and it's the fucking presumption...

I like that idea for a shirt.