Comments | rebekah1213: La-da-da La-da-da. . . Humming a Lullaby

rebekah1213

La-da-da La-da-da. . . Humming a Lullaby

Mar 27, 2011 05:06

I had a dream a few days ago. . . (Actually it was a week ago the same day the computer broke. . . anyway).

I have had several blogs on here about pregnancy scares and whether I even want a child or not. (Tom believes I have no patience and I am not mother material. . . He also claims to know more about kids than me, but I doubt that. I raised my ( Read more... )

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lesbido March 27 2011, 17:54:00 UTC

Wanting the best for your children is normal and can lead to producing successful adults. It becomes unhealthy when it ignores the child's own ideas about what is "best" for them. Sometimes you have to hold back and let them learn on their own. Not all the time, because that's neglect, but I would say most of the time. You can show them how to get there without doing the steps yourself.

rebekah1213 March 28 2011, 04:01:50 UTC

I know taking care of children is a balance, and trial and error. . . I just hope someday Tom and I agree on how to raise and support our kids.

lesbido March 28 2011, 04:07:48 UTC

Parents rarely do. I think a difference of opinion provides necessary balance, really.

rebekah1213 March 28 2011, 06:36:38 UTC

I like your user pic.

My boyfriend and I rarely fight, but I know if we have kids that is all we will do.