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Oct 29, 2008 01:17

Around 3am I realized that I lost my work keys and then I realized I had to open the store at 9am. Me and george looked all over my apartment for them but they were no where to be found. I really didn't want to call my boss in the morning to tell her that I was locked out of the store and she'd have to come all the way from harlem to open it for me ( Read more... )

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xburningmikex October 29 2008, 05:39:00 UTC

meh. Sounds like no big deal, honestly. Sure, problems might be coming together, but at least you know what the problems are. Do you feel like structure would return to your life if there was a change? What are you seeking right now?

reason_to_move October 29 2008, 06:39:04 UTC

i know it sounds like no big deal but im just so busy and dont know where to begin. I need a break. I don't know what needs to change but I think I just need to take a breather. I think if I were in a relationship that'd help too, I'd feel less lonely/lost. eh, i dont know, i'm sure shit will work out. Just sometimes it's overwhelming, ya know?

xburningmikex October 29 2008, 06:46:35 UTC

believe me, I understand. I'm not downplaying your issues, just suggesting that a different perspective on the problems can make it all seem more reasonable. Taking a week or even a few days off and out of one's social scene changes things for the better, by far. We're switching hoods this weekend, too.
I'm seeking the same right now, but it's definitely out of my control, so all I can do at this point is to just ride it until the end.
Whatever happens, we can always be excited for the changes that are inevitable.

reason_to_move October 29 2008, 16:39:03 UTC

this is true, thanks mike.

ifandonlyif October 29 2008, 19:17:16 UTC

yeahh i know this feeling way too well.

honestly, it helps to break things down into little tasks. like, do one thing a day even (laundry, etc) and then do stuff that you enjoy the rest of the day. sometimes getting all that shit out of the way can clear your head and make life easier to deal with. ORRR you could go home for a weekend. i find that lounging around my house and eating my parents' food is always therapeutic.

reason_to_move October 30 2008, 04:35:17 UTC

yeah thats what i'm planning on doing soon, just go to baltimore and pretend like i have no work to do. im pretty good at that one!