So, i broke down... Finally i asked. And it looks like Dan is not intested in making me a wife. He says that could change when he is older but right now he does not want to
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Well I love you too sweetheart and I can kinda understand where Dan is coming from as well, I mean he's experienced his parents split and I'd assume that that was hard and may have soured him on the whole marriage idea.
In either case remember that while you know you love him and if your truely happy then be with him here and now but do not sacrifice your own dreams just to be there if its not truely what you want.
Yeah i guess. But he had talked about marriage before as if it was something he wantted.
Dan asked me why we need to be married, And other then the commitment thing... I could not thing of any good reasons for him.
To me its making a promise to each other. Saying to one another that you are in it for think and thin. To the rest of the world. Stating that you have a partner for life. I dunno.
Well and thats just it... if it matters to you it should matter to him and I would turn the question around on him... why doesn't it matter to him?
You are totally valid in your reasons...
its making a promise to each other. Saying to one another that you are in it for think and thin. To the rest of the world. Stating that you have a partner for life.
those are all reasons. make a list if you have to but you have every right to feel how you do.
^_^
I'll call u think weekend and we'll go for coffee.
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In either case remember that while you know you love him and if your truely happy then be with him here and now but do not sacrifice your own dreams just to be there if its not truely what you want.
^_^ Coffee... We Should Go SooN! :P
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Dan asked me why we need to be married, And other then the commitment thing... I could not thing of any good reasons for him.
To me its making a promise to each other. Saying to one another that you are in it for think and thin. To the rest of the world. Stating that you have a partner for life. I dunno.
Sillyness
It matters tio me, shouldent that be enouf?
Yes coffee would be good.
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You are totally valid in your reasons...
its making a promise to each other. Saying to one another that you are in it for think and thin. To the rest of the world. Stating that you have a partner for life.
those are all reasons. make a list if you have to but you have every right to feel how you do.
^_^
I'll call u think weekend and we'll go for coffee.
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