Comments | rayray5884: Twenty One

rayray5884

Twenty One

Aug 03, 2005 00:27

I really just don't know. The issue that has bothered me for I don't even know how many years is about to hit me in the face. Five years later, including 3 years of college, numerous late night discussions and debates with friends, 2.5 months of counseling, much thought, late night trips around town on my rollerblades, and I feel as if I've ( Read more... )

21, alcohol

Comments 5

smrtypants785 August 3 2005, 05:37:27 UTC

oh john...talkiong about alcohol no? wellll i guess what my assumption/guess/feeling is.... that ur afraid...afraid of what ppl will think when u give in, afraid of what ppl think when/if you don't...ur feeling like ppl expect you to drink b/c its ur 21st on friday but no we just want you to be happy..so go to ur strip club or whatever u want....forget the world...or come to chicago w/me....maybe i'll wait until ur done working and we can drive up together(save gas?) ... i'm sure tony and andrew and kyle and trent who u probably haven't met would be happy to lend a couch and give you a sanctuary from all of the ppl pushing...just make sure to get a new id if u want to go to the aqua teen hunger force whatever concert...eh? ok kinda not sober...ttyl!

auram August 3 2005, 13:28:08 UTC

No one is saying you have to drink on your birthday. If people joke about it, its just that: a jokeIf it bothers you then I would say do something about it and don't just run away on friday, birthdays are supposed to be happy. You had Champagne at New Years and it wasn't a big deal. No one thought less of you. No one hated you for it. Why would they now? If they do, fuck them, to put it bluntly. Who needs a friend like that ( ... )

rayray5884 August 3 2005, 23:27:33 UTC

Pretty much everyone knows that I don't have a reason really, you're not missing out on anything. And if someone claims to know send them my way because I'd like to know as well! I hope that doesn't sound mean or anything, it was supposed to be somewhat humorous.

auram August 4 2005, 13:24:00 UTC

I actually didn't know if you had a reason or not, but it doesn't really matter if you do or not I suppose. :)

But yep, thats the reason I asked

Do what you want anonymous August 3 2005, 22:18:17 UTC

You dont have to drink if you dont want to....and you dont have to EXPLAIN why u dont drink to anyone either...it is your wishes and if they will only get off ur ass about it if you give them an explination, then fuck em...you dont have to explain why you like or dislike it and i personally think u should come home for your birthday...dad had something planned for ur birthday...so i dunno just a suggestion.. <3 Sara