Dynamic equilibrium

[random_stabs]

I really don't have a consistent description for what I've been going through for the past six months: pushing my boundaries, breaking them, redefining them, re-defining "me", discovering who I am, or just growing... All of the above, or none, who knows... These all feel like first cousins of the right words and not completely on target

Comments

[madspark]

Change comes long and hard, but it can happen.

For example, my Myers Briggs used to show me at INTJ, and I've shifted to ENTJ and my T, I think, is at the cusp, just barely T, almost F (according to this online test which may or may not be awesome).

[onesandzeros]

Sounds like you're in the perfect place to start a good romantic relationship, if one were to materialize.

You've got a stable job with decent folks that pays well. That's a lot to be thankful for, especially in these times. Still, if you were to go venturing off in search of greener pastures, as long as you left on good terms you'd probably be able to get hired on again.

I lost my spark for work when I decided to leave for my partner. I do wish I could get it back but my life is so rich outside of work, they treat me well, and they pay me well, I really can't complain.