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[rainyangl]

Why are there so many articles/books/messages boards about how to catch a cheating spouse, how to forgive your cheating spouse, how to heal from finding out your spouse cheated?

What about the people that have betrayed their spouse? What about the grief and remorse and self hate that comes along with being the cheater?

How does the cheater get past

Comments

[supremegoddess]

::hugs:: I don't know what to tell you, hon. Just keep hangin on.

[lisatllg]

Oh sweetie... i'm thinking of you. I'm so sorry you're going through so much pain. I can only imagine what that feels like. Just remember that hurting yourself, ultimately will only add further burden to him - he will be in a position to have to make you feel better. just breathe... and do what you can to begin the process of forgiving yourself, dusting yourself off... learning.... and living every day as authentically as you can. Much love headed your way.