The long term missing of absent fathers

[rainsinger]

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[67threnody]

What a beautiful tribute.

Is that you in the picture? How cute! And how tenderly he's holding you.

[rainsinger]

that's indeed me in the picture, I think the first picture of me in existence.

[mzdt]

It's good to be able to write about something like this, face it. It's something unchangeable, and so much bigger than my minor ups & downs, say. There's so much that is, near and far. It's good to put things in perspective. You'll get a hug in person when I see you soon...

[rainsinger]

It's something unchangeable, and so much bigger than my minor ups & downs, say.

Ups and Downs are relative, and please do not devalue your own. Although in your case nobody died physically, the idea and potential of them did.

But yes, sometimes a different perspective is good and I'm looking forward to the hug. :D

p.s. tori's concert is on the 3rd of June so I can see you on the 18th:)

[tubewalker]

You rule, you totally rule x x x

[rainsinger]

thank you for reading and commenting, it means a lot.

you rule too, and I'll try and make it to the tube walk on sat :)

[actually_not]

ah, you write so beautifully i can feel your sadness from here.

i have your tori ticket.....

[rainsinger]

hurray!
thank you :)

Which june is it and how much do I owe you?

[actually_not]

it is friday june 3rd....i think tickets were a rather ouch-making £30..but i'll check for sure when i get home. do you want me to post yours to you?

[rainsinger]

i'll give you a ring later today if it's ok :)

Re: i love that photo of him

[rainsinger]

...and then i talk to him

hahahhahahha
but your parents are disenchanting.

*hugs you*