I loved Death at a Funeral! Did you see the original or the American remake? or the American re-remake?
Also, just as being fat is fine, so is deciding you do not want to be fat. You are not obliged to explain your bodily preferences to anyone, especially your preferences for your own body. Example: I hate having body hair. I like to shave it all off. I do not, however, have any animosity against body hair on other people. In fact, I think its kind of sexy on women. but for some reason I can't stand having it on me. Would I want my girlfriend to shave her body hair? ONLY if it made HER happy. Would I think she's "better" without body hair? Nope. I would think she's "better" when she looks in a way that pleases her.
So don't worry about wanting to change your body composition - its yours and so long as you are making reasonably healthy choices like not drinking bug spray or eating asphalt, you are fine.
Alan Tudyk! American remake is on the list. I didn't know there was a re-remake, but I suppose that's on the list as well.
Thanks for the support. I totally agree about having ones' own body configuration regardless of outsiders' opinions. Health exceptions exist, like I know one guy who had to keep everything (yes, everything) short because he was allergic to his own hair. But the discussion on the whole troubles me because I'm so very angry with fat-shaming folks (and the most common overlap with "personal responsibility" and "lazy" and "you get what you deserve")... and how most of them would interpret my choice as capitulating to their worldview.
Apropos of nothing, I just realized this icon is you peering under a pair of spectacles. I thought it was arcane body art the first hundred times.
... and more, there's some self-blame going on because some part of me does buy into the popular cultural narrative, and a different blame going on because I've been hurting my own stomach, and we like blaming people, especially ourselves.
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Also, just as being fat is fine, so is deciding you do not want to be fat. You are not obliged to explain your bodily preferences to anyone, especially your preferences for your own body.
Example: I hate having body hair. I like to shave it all off. I do not, however, have any animosity against body hair on other people. In fact, I think its kind of sexy on women. but for some reason I can't stand having it on me. Would I want my girlfriend to shave her body hair? ONLY if it made HER happy. Would I think she's "better" without body hair? Nope. I would think she's "better" when she looks in a way that pleases her.
So don't worry about wanting to change your body composition - its yours and so long as you are making reasonably healthy choices like not drinking bug spray or eating asphalt, you are fine.
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American remake is on the list. I didn't know there was a re-remake, but I suppose that's on the list as well.
Thanks for the support.
I totally agree about having ones' own body configuration regardless of outsiders' opinions. Health exceptions exist, like I know one guy who had to keep everything (yes, everything) short because he was allergic to his own hair.
But the discussion on the whole troubles me because I'm so very angry with fat-shaming folks (and the most common overlap with "personal responsibility" and "lazy" and "you get what you deserve")... and how most of them would interpret my choice as capitulating to their worldview.
Apropos of nothing, I just realized this icon is you peering under a pair of spectacles. I thought it was arcane body art the first hundred times.
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