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[radicaldreamer]

Hello LJ, long time no speak...

Up until lately I haven't been in the mood, nor had the time, to write properly in my journal. I wanted to keep up with you guys, but I've just haven't been up to par. (I've all missed you of course, hope you've missed me too

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[immortelle_]

Jag tycker om min hund ^^
Den är jobbig ibland, men det är fifty-fifty. Jobbig att promenera med, men trevlig att mysa med. ^^

[radicaldreamer]

Hihi. Jo jag kände typ samma sak för Cocoa, "Coco-chan", min värdfamiljs Tax. Den hade så mycket personlighet att man inte kunde låta bli att bli förtjust i den!!

Men är det fel att tycka att saker går för fort? Det ska lixom kännas bra innan man går vidare till ett nytt djur, och så ska man vara någorlunda redo... vi har juh ingen erfarenhet av hundar sedan tidigare (och det är trots allt en levande varelse!!). Men jag skulle också vilja ha en mys-kompanjon. Låter riktigt härligt! :3

[nekomiao]

Oh sweetie you have been missed, really!

I don't think a dog will change the family situation unless everyone else feels about it and uses the dog as a springboard to help change the situation. Otherwise it'll happen that the dog will feel lonely, you'll feel obligated to take care of it and nothing else will change other than your workload.

I hope things work out for you though.

[radicaldreamer]

♥ as have you been.

I'm afraid that it'll just end up being an extra workload (and thus having a dog that feels negelected and lonely), but I really think that my mom would feel motivated to take care of it and work towards a better family situation. Dad will probably have to take a lot of the main responsibilities because he works a lot at home... but I'm not sure he's as motivated? ;;

We decided to think about it for a while and discuss it again later. Fortunately none of us are (contrary to what I thought) really hurried, so we'll just have to think things through before we decide! :3 -hug-

[perfectdays]

Oh honey, I'm so sorry about your cat. *Hugs* That must be awful for you.

As for the dog thing: I think you should sit down with your family and have a calm and composed family discussion in which your parents acknowledge your side of the story, and then maybe you can come to a decision about it as a family. I think that's probably going to be the only way to ease your worries D:...

(Then again, you could just end up arguing and being more frustrated, if your family is anything like mine D:. It takes a lot to get through to my parents.)

[radicaldreamer]

(Then again, you could just end up arguing and being more frustrated, if your family is anything like mine D:. It takes a lot to get through to my parents.) heh, that sounds like my family.

But we actually settled this discussion pretty calmly. It turns out that my parents were feeling the same way.. they don't want to rush it.

-hugs-

[shien_]

Oh Fi~! ♥ Min sockerbit i téet! :,D *snuggles*
Vad mysigt med en hund, men vad trist att Popcorn är borta.. :,<
En hund är bra på många vis, man kommer ut mer och får lite motion. De skyddar en ♥ (ur dog in shining armor wiil protect u n ur gheyp0rn :,D) <-wtf...
Jag förstår dock att det känns lite konstigt... den där mannen som vill sälja hunden kanske har fått ett nytt jobb eller något dock, det behöver ju inte vara något med just hunden, ne?

I vilket falls om helst tycker jag iaf. att ni allihop ska åka iväg och titta + bekanta er lite med hunden först. Vem vet, det kanske blir lav at first sight. ♥♥♥
Fast jag är kanske överdrivet optimistisk eftersom jag tycker så mkt om hundar... men isåfall kanske det kan väga över lite på dig, ne? ^ 0^) *huggles*

Sköt om dig Fi, jag hoppas det löser sig till det bästa! Vi måste ses någongång snart också, och pratas mer! > A<) ♥