Love and Hate

[rachazhure]

Well, so guess who I love? My amazing friends, that's who!!

Three exams left. Lots of chilling downtown. Movies and music and singing and laughing and it's almost summer. Got my schedule worked out at the Traders, and going to DC for college-searching in the very near future. Mmm, yummy colleges up there.

Speaking of yummy....Orlando Bloom with his

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[spangletigress]

Hmm... It seems like you're in a pensive mood...

All I have to say about the guy situation is that understanding all of those things about you is LEARNABLE -- you're not doomed forever just because the only one you know right now who understands is a, well, I don't know if I'm allowed to call him that, but you know what I mean. BUT YAY FOR GETTING OVER HIM! I'm so happy for you and so proud of you, Racha! And OF COURSE you have the most amazing friends ever! Only the most amazing friends ever get to have the most amazing friends ever! ;)

Hate: See Robert Sternberg's triangle theory -- the three "elements" of hatred are Passion (which is also in the love theory), Commitment or the decision to hate (which is also part of the love theory), and Disgust or a lack of intimacy (which is opposite the love theory)... The scariest kind of hate is that which consists of Disgust and Commitment and lacks Passion, the slow and chilling "I am going to kill you now" horror-film sort of hatred.

[rachazhure]

Oh, I know I'm not doomed. Just...thoughful. It's a bit of a pain when the one of the few people who understands all of your craziness is the one person that can't be there. But life moves on! "You live, you learn, you love, you learn, you cry, you learn, you lose, you learn." Alanis Morissette. Yay for angry girl music that makes me giggle!

This is no slow and chilling, passion-less hate, so no worries; you will not see me in the news being taken away for first degree premeditated murder. S'just painful to think you're rid of a person and he comes back at the worst possible times, bringing with him all the things you'd tried to forget. But again: "You grieve, you learn."

[spangletigress]

Hehee, an English teacher once told me that my poetry reminded her of Alanis Morissette (the Australian one I had in Grenoble)... *resolves to further ponder this as being angry girl Music*

Oh, I know that you're not passionless in anything! I'm not afraid of you being angry. I just hope that you find a suitable outlet for this anger and that you are soon able to be soothed, and not consumed, but it. *Hugs*

Lahamap, Dear, and break fingers on your remaining exams.