I just feel like I was overreacting or something...like I said, I know Linda wouldn't do anything to break Ferris and I up, but it still sucks to hear it, especially when Linda knows how Stacie treated Ferris.
oooh, i hate when i nag zach, but i end up doing it all the time. it's hard when i can tell i'm being annoying, but there are certain things which i feel like the sooner we handle them, the better off we will be... such as this moving thing. i mean, it is a little too early to actually deal with it in a practical way, but he doesn't even want to talk about it, and it's like, grr. come on. but yeah, for some reason i definitely feel myself being more nagging lately, and i hate doing it. and, it is really weird when bfs tell you stuff like it's no big deal that ends up driving you crazy. my bf's best friend is a girl, and they dated in college... and she's getting married next year. so he tells me that he doesn't like her fiancee (even though they are all friends), because he doesn't think that he's good enough for her, and that in his mind, no one will ever be good enough for her. wtf? i mean, like you said, i know it's nothing to worry about, but sometimes i wish he could keep thoughts like that to himself. lol.
it's hard when i can tell i'm being annoying, but there are certain things which i feel like the sooner we handle them, the better off we will be EXACTLY!!! It's not like I nag him about little things (most of the time...), but I really worry when he puts important things off - like paying a bill or something. I just want him to grow up and be a little more responsible, but I don't know how to do it without nagging him. Even talking to his mom doesn't help...grrr!
Stacie's mom is really nice, so I know she didn't mean anything by her comment. I just wonder if Ferris's mom thinks the same thing...like does she think that Stacie and Ferris make a better couple than he and I? That's going to make me more insecure around her, which is not a good thing.
I think thats really cute how you wrote him a little note! aww... I also can't believe his ex wants him back... wierd.. I know that with my ex's I dont want them back but hence I haven't talked to them since the break up.. but it doesnt matter.. I hope things with his ex aren't so sketchy like they are now.. thats just so wierd that they havent been together for 2 years and shes still obsessing over him.... Oh well her loss... haha.. Good luck with everything!!
His ex doesn't want him back (she'd better not anyway...). Her mom wants her and Ferris back together, even though Stacie stomped all over his heart and broke up with him 3-4 different times, and then went crawling back. Ug. I can't believe that someone that knows the ins and outs of that relationship would want the two of them together again. Ferris thinks it's because Linda doesn't like Stacie's new boyfriend, which would make sense.
Sorry, I didn't mean to rant :) I've just had more time to think about the whole situation over the past few days, and tht's what I've been thinking :)
Don't worry about the ranting.. you have every right to rant about this situation.. You've definatly had more time to think about the situation and now you can take a better stand on the situation.. When you have more time to think about things you think them over more throughly and you have the opportunity to figure out what you want... So you have every right to rant about this... I wish you all the luck with this situation.. Hopefully it will all blow over and that girls mother will get over herself!! Good Luck!
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and, it is really weird when bfs tell you stuff like it's no big deal that ends up driving you crazy. my bf's best friend is a girl, and they dated in college... and she's getting married next year. so he tells me that he doesn't like her fiancee (even though they are all friends), because he doesn't think that he's good enough for her, and that in his mind, no one will ever be good enough for her. wtf? i mean, like you said, i know it's nothing to worry about, but sometimes i wish he could keep thoughts like that to himself. lol.
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Stacie's mom is really nice, so I know she didn't mean anything by her comment. I just wonder if Ferris's mom thinks the same thing...like does she think that Stacie and Ferris make a better couple than he and I? That's going to make me more insecure around her, which is not a good thing.
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I also can't believe his ex wants him back... wierd.. I know that with my ex's I dont want them back but hence I haven't talked to them since the break up.. but it doesnt matter.. I hope things with his ex aren't so sketchy like they are now.. thats just so wierd that they havent been together for 2 years and shes still obsessing over him.... Oh well her loss... haha.. Good luck with everything!!
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Sorry, I didn't mean to rant :) I've just had more time to think about the whole situation over the past few days, and tht's what I've been thinking :)
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