Okay so here's the thing, I've been drinking (one 22 oz bottle of hard cider with dinner so not sloshed but expect spelling failures) and I just need to say this, and if I'm feeling particularly stupid later I might post this on tumblr (because the internet is so much smarter/dumber than me sometimes and tumblr is full of tinkerbells) BUT I FEEL
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This is also why I like the fact that fandom loves to question Sherlock's own use of the ~high-functioning sociopath~ label. Any box that Sherlock Holmes would willingly allow himself to be put into deserves immediate and deeply suspicious investigation. Personally, I think it's another thing he uses to keep people caught off guard and distanced from himself.
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Buuuuut yeah. Sorry, tangent. I think of the two of them Mycroft is the sociopath, or at least the one closest to being a sociopath. And possibly asexual as well. And maybe Sherlock's just emmulating his big brother. IDK, I HAVE THE PLAGUE, THINKING IS HARD.
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And I very much agree with you on the Mycroft is the sociopath line of thinking, seeing as I just wrote some meta on my Tumblr that totally skirted the idea that BBC Sherlock seems to have put Mycroft and Moriarty on the same level of feelings-proof inhumanity, and cast Sherlock as questioning and ultimately accepting the importance of feelings/caring, etc, despite how much he's obviously been conditioned to think meanly of it.
But I have gotten 2 hours of sleep in the last 34 hours, I'M NOT SURE WHAT THESE WORDS I'M TYPING NOW EVEN ARE.
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I love that this fandom is exploring it too! I love when fandom explores anything, really, but especially variaties of orientation and gender and sex because I LEARN things. I just have a problem with people saying "THIS IS IT THIS IS THE ONLY WAY THBBBPT"--and that's with anything, really. Like you said, labels don't work that well because we're humans and we don't like fitting into boxes.
Brains are TOTALLY sexy! And sex itself has been built up into this grandiose thing by hollywood etc. that often can't meet expectations because our brains know more about our buttons than our bodies do (see every horror movie that never shows us the monster, because what happens in our mind is so much bigger than reality can produce most of the time).
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"...and yes, asexuals need physical contact too, just not sexual contact."
This is absolutely true. When I think about having a partner in the future, I think wistfully of cuddling together on the couch, absent-minded hugs (and kisses) in the mornings and constant casual contant. All of these things speak of intimacy that you don't get with just anybody.
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I love the picture you've painted here, bb, I think it's what everyone ultimately wants! :DD *HUGS*
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...I really have nothing else to say. I'll just grab your "AGREED. WITH EVERYTHING" and leave it here 'cause yeah. Yeaaaaaaaaaaah. ♥ ♥ ♥
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