Head Fuckers

[princeofpuursia]

hey dudes/dudettes. How are you all? I'm extremely confused, a little bit pissed off, kinda worried and more then a little bit lonely. A friend of mine came to see me over the weekend, we've been getting on really well recently but she keeps getting down for no apparent reason. I invited her up cos I thought she needed a break and a hug

Comments

[carnbear]

Oh gee, I wonder who this could be :(

Hang in there boss and get guitaring. Don't let this bullshit worry you.

[princeofpuursia]

I named no names! Your welcome to assime all you want, you may or may not be correct in your assumption.
Disclaimer Over.
You reckon hang in there? I shall be guitaring asap.

[carnbear]

heheh

Good man.

[randy_angel]

If you're talking about who I think you're talking about, then I can let you have the conclusions which I drew from the situation if you like? A lot of people have judged me for my actions, would be nice to have somebody to discuss them with. I have no intentions of "turning you against" her, however, I expect I will be accused of doing for offering this.

With regards to the harming thing, there's not a lot you can feel about it. She's going to do it regardless of whether you're there or not. Not reacting to it is probably the best thing. When I used to do it, I didn't want a reaction, I was doing it to release some emotions I couldn't express any other way. But then, I never did it in front of anybody.

[princeofpuursia]

Thanks hun! would love to hear your opinion/conclussions. I have a few of my own, would be interesting to se how they compare. give me a bell any time you want. *hugs*

[randy_angel]

Will Email. Wanna word things carefully so that actually say what I mean! Am crap at doing that on the phone...

*hugs*

[parssta]

I also think I know who you are talking about...no need for the disclaimer I read it above ;) You shouldn't feel bad...the person in question; and this isn't me being bitchy, this is me being honest and I'm sure the person themselves would admit this: they have a very self destructive personality, there is nothing you can do about that, only the person themselves can change it, and it's hard to change it...therefore you can't stop them from hurting themselves, so don't try...I know that sounds harsh and I'm not saying you shouldn't care, but at the end of the day there's nothing you can do about it...I myself would suggest as a friend to the said person that they stop drinking for a while...I recieved this advice from a friend when I felt extremely down and I know it made my ability to handle situations much better...take care of yourself *hugs* x

[kanndkat]

JJ, she texted me saying that you are no longer friends but not the whole story. To tell you the truth, if someone wants to kill themselves, let them get on with it. You can't stop them. Just like you can't stop alcoholics if they don't want to be helped. All you can do is say that they are extremely stupid, but you won't stand in their way. And if any are doing it for attention, they will see that nobody cares and either stop or put everyone out of their misery and do it. It really irritates me. I know this may sound harsh but you can't do anything about it. All you can do is tell them what you think and let them deal with it.
Trying to stop them is waht proffessionals are for. Get on with your own life my friend. xxx Good news with the guitar playing:0) xxx

[trixiesinnocent]

mate i think shes making a mistake, i dont think shes an attention seeker, even if somethime that impression is given, i know how it feels to want to hurt myself, but not have ppl give me a reaction AND then have them tell me im attention seeking, which i wasnt....anyway hon,its up to you in the end, but i am here for you: for both of you. *snugs*