I have given that speech a couple of times to a couple of different people, and have gotten two opposite reactions. One couldn't handle the sexual/casual camaraderie that we had originally agreed upon, exiting the room immediately after we've had sex (i mean like, pull out, gone), leaving me to feel like a whore, naked and alone in his bed. This was what i assumed to be a reaction to his own sense of guilt, underestimating my ability to be affectionate and sexual outside the context of a relationship. The others have given me the "all or nothing" nonsense. I usual have opted for "nothing," not wanting, at the time, to surrender my own emotional freedom when i wasn't 100% ready to
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