See, I assumed you'd be one of the people to say that, along with Krista&Colby, My brother&Kim, Rumor&Louis, Erick&Ashley, and a few other people who have dated and currently aren't. But define it....what is it? Will you still love Nick once he lies to you? Does it mean Nick loves you if he lies to you?....no but it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Would you still love Nick if he cheated on you? Would you still love Nick if you cheated on him? More than likely you would, but why would you cheat on someone? Is there a reason behind it?......
I don't know this is a lot to ask, I am just confused about life. Sorry. But I am glad we're friends now<3.
ps-the questions above aren't meant to be mean or anything it's just I am curious, and it's hard to justify something or a mistake someone has made, and it's hard to forgive someone, but if it's love then why would people do it? And if said people were so in love then why would the thought even cross their mind?
Well i've been with my boyfriend for a long time now. We have gone through stuff and yes i still love him. He's lied. I've lied. Just about little things though and we've made it through them. I would still love him even if he hurt me. Maybe i wouldn't date him but you just don't stop loving someone just because of that. I can't answer the question why would you cheat on someone. Because i think the same way " If you love someone then why would you cheat on them?" I wouldn't know i've never cheated on anyone. Maybe you don't know this but Nick and i fight a lot. Maybe more than most couples do. We've gotten through it and we aren't going to just break up because of some silly fight.
Heres my thought. Just because you think there isn't love out there doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. Or maybe just because you haven't found the "right guy." There is such a thing as love. You love your parents right? Haha you know what i mean? And if said people were so in love then why would the thought even cross their mind?It's never crossed my
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I don't specifically mean boyfriend/girlfriend love, and if I had to think about it, yes I do love my parents, but partly because I have to. I know I care about them, but I really don't respect my father, and without respect how can you love someone? The choices he chooses to make are indescribably...incomprehensible!...I don't know why my father does what he does, and don't care for it, and maybe it doesn't mean he doesn't love me, but it's hard to see it, and if he does, then what would make him do such things.
I wasn't really referring to bf/gf relationships, I meant love in general, and even though I've screwed up with previous friendships in the past, doesn't mean I still don't love my friends, it just means I made an incredibly stupid decision, and some of my friendships have gotten stronger and some have completely been destroyed, but it doesn't mean I ever stopped loving some of them as friends.
Open your eyes Mikki, love is everywhere! Just because there are some bumps.. mountains in some people's realationships doesn't mean all love doesn't exist.
i can honestly say i know what love is. the kind of love that after you yell, scream, and call each other idiots you start laughing with each other and vow to never fight again. the kind of love that you can tell each other how much you hate them but know that you don't mean it. even if we can't admit it we all love our parents, and we ARE our parents in ways.
and if you're talking about love in a boyfriend/girlfriend kind of way, there is no room to judge and say no one knows what love is. love is what YOU make it, not a standard you have to live up to. if you think you're in love, who the hell is to tell you that you aren't. isn't love supposed to be the butterfly in your heart and the reason you love seeing them? it is different for everyone so everyone is going to have a different point of view. and in high school a lot of people might not be ready for love (hence cheaters, immaturity), but sometimes people get lucky and end up marrying their high school sweethearts.
Thanks Jane, love is what YOU make it, not a standard you have to live up to That helps.But I wasn't specifically speaking about bf/gf's. You're the greatest girlfriend ever! I love you Jane ;]
I wish I could've. Plans deffinatly didn't work out the way I wanted them to...:[ But trust me you wouldn't have wanted to hang out with me today anyways. I was the biggest bitch ever, way more than usual.
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Where have you been lately?
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I love you too<3.
I am currently in Iowa with the BEST person in the WORLD!!
aka...my brother marcus.
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And there is such a thing.
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But define it....what is it?
Will you still love Nick once he lies to you?
Does it mean Nick loves you if he lies to you?....no but it doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
Would you still love Nick if he cheated on you?
Would you still love Nick if you cheated on him?
More than likely you would, but why would you cheat on someone? Is there a reason behind it?......
I don't know this is a lot to ask, I am just confused about life.
Sorry.
But I am glad we're friends now<3.
ps-the questions above aren't meant to be mean or anything it's just I am curious, and it's hard to justify something or a mistake someone has made, and it's hard to forgive someone, but if it's love then why would people do it? And if said people were so in love then why would the thought even cross their mind?
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We have gone through stuff and yes i still love him. He's lied. I've lied. Just about little things though and we've made it through them. I would still love him even if he hurt me. Maybe i wouldn't date him but you just don't stop loving someone just because of that.
I can't answer the question why would you cheat on someone. Because i think the same way " If you love someone then why would you cheat on them?" I wouldn't know i've never cheated on anyone.
Maybe you don't know this but Nick and i fight a lot. Maybe more than most couples do. We've gotten through it and we aren't going to just break up because of some silly fight.
Heres my thought. Just because you think there isn't love out there doesn't mean that it doesn't exist.
Or maybe just because you haven't found the "right guy."
There is such a thing as love. You love your parents right?
Haha you know what i mean?
And if said people were so in love then why would the thought even cross their mind?It's never crossed my ( ... )
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The choices he chooses to make are indescribably...incomprehensible!...I don't know why my father does what he does, and don't care for it, and maybe it doesn't mean he doesn't love me, but it's hard to see it, and if he does, then what would make him do such things.
I wasn't really referring to bf/gf relationships, I meant love in general, and even though I've screwed up with previous friendships in the past, doesn't mean I still don't love my friends, it just means I made an incredibly stupid decision, and some of my friendships have gotten stronger and some have completely been destroyed, but it doesn't mean I ever stopped loving some of them as friends.
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Love's gunna get you! AND YOU WILL BELIEVE!
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and if you're talking about love in a boyfriend/girlfriend kind of way, there is no room to judge and say no one knows what love is. love is what YOU make it, not a standard you have to live up to. if you think you're in love, who the hell is to tell you that you aren't. isn't love supposed to be the butterfly in your heart and the reason you love seeing them? it is different for everyone so everyone is going to have a different point of view. and in high school a lot of people might not be ready for love (hence cheaters, immaturity), but sometimes people get lucky and end up marrying their high school sweethearts.
that is all i have to say. :]
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love is what YOU make it, not a standard you have to live up to
That helps.But I wasn't specifically speaking about bf/gf's.
You're the greatest girlfriend ever!
I love you Jane ;]
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Plans deffinatly didn't work out the way I wanted them to...:[
But trust me you wouldn't have wanted to hang out with me today anyways.
I was the biggest bitch ever, way more than usual.
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