Wow. Awkward.... but do you really think you can find someone who will pay rent and, uh, never have anyone over? Isn't having guests kind of the right of someone paying their part of the rent?
Just seems to me that while obviously, you don't want the GF over 24/7, you can't really tell someone they can't have a significant other or overnight guests. Maybe a not over 50% of the week rule? But even that seems a little "dorm room" not I pay rent to live here... :/
Though on the other hand, it's pretty alarming she's not tiptoeing around at least a little knowing how you feel... and could be a very big indicator on how she deals with conflict.
It's not that I think she can't EVER have somebody over. It's that, over the last ten days, she's had her girlfriend sleep over for six of them. They never interact with Natasha and I, and they don't seem to care that their loud marathon sex might bother the people who live with them
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I'm sooo sorry that you're dealing with this. I think you and Natasha are totally within your rights to be pissed... you asked her FLAT OUT if she was in a relationship and she lied!! I agree with Whimsy, lying liars who lie are not welcome!!
Miss Thang needs a come-to-Jesus meeting, and I wish you massive amounts of luck. *hugs*
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Good luck with the Roomate Summit.
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I'll let you know how The Summit goes.
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Just seems to me that while obviously, you don't want the GF over 24/7, you can't really tell someone they can't have a significant other or overnight guests. Maybe a not over 50% of the week rule? But even that seems a little "dorm room" not I pay rent to live here... :/
Though on the other hand, it's pretty alarming she's not tiptoeing around at least a little knowing how you feel... and could be a very big indicator on how she deals with conflict.
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Miss Thang needs a come-to-Jesus meeting, and I wish you massive amounts of luck. *hugs*
Also, I've been mainlining BBT as well. :)
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