You're not at all a horrible person. This is a hard time and everyone deals with it differently. Don't be hard on yourself. Again, I'm sorry for your loss.
total agreement with the others here. You made peace, you grieve as you need to. Not showing up was your choice. I mean if you need to you can always go to the grave site later, call up or talk to his parents or whatever.
But no. You didn't do anything horrible. That would be cool to have Hawaiian music played. So so glad they did that. Played things he would have wanted....
I hope you recover from this soon. Death of friends is so damn hard. I never go past the cemetary without glancing in the direction my friend Penny was buried. And that was 10 years ago she died. :/
Thank you ALL, for caring about my loss, and the words of encouragement. I only know you guys through livejournal (except miragi, who I met once!), but I feel like you truly are my friends. Thank you again. You make the pain easier to get through!
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But no. You didn't do anything horrible. That would be cool to have Hawaiian music played. So so glad they did that. Played things he would have wanted....
I hope you recover from this soon. Death of friends is so damn hard. I never go past the cemetary without glancing in the direction my friend Penny was buried. And that was 10 years ago she died. :/
**hug**
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I only know you guys through livejournal (except miragi, who I met once!), but I feel like you truly are my friends.
Thank you again.
You make the pain easier to get through!
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