games

[pnksugar6]

This game that we entice others to play with us in the end is it all worth the time outs, red flags, and field goals? We have trained ourselves to fall into a trap of safe guarding our heart by staying aloof and trying our hardest to act like we don’t care in some attempt to make others care. If we appear that we don’t care even about ourselves

Comments

[ajolly]

It's a devil of a trade off. We want to find people to love, people to care for...and have that love returned. At the same time, we hate the risks, the chances, the feelings we harbor being thrown back at us. We end up either blocking off our own emotions, pretending to ourselves and others that they just aren't there...which leads to nothing of meaning....or showing them, and risking the chance of pain, but for a potentially great reward.

Ultimately, there isn't a easy answer....but a choice between what we value more: Avoiding pain, or potentially great rewards.

[hulabear]

Why does honestly lead to looking clingy? If someone really wants to be with you, then they'll want to be with you just as much as you want to be with them and if they think you're being clingy either they're a fuck head and you shouldn't be involved with them or you're not enough of your own person.