I have some really bad news

Sep 28, 2012 22:27

Whining under the cut, sorry to clutter people's f-list with this but I feel bad about not saying anything

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shastakiss September 29 2012, 03:15:21 UTC
Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear your hand isn't healing well :(
And your therapist doesn't get it? Can you change to a different one? I hope the new specialist can help and maybe they'll set you up with a new pt who can help too.

Whining? I think it's healthy to let your sim friends know you could use a little support. You're doing everything you should - HUG!

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pkheartznroses September 29 2012, 14:27:35 UTC
Thank you Shastakiss, I'm hoping that new therapists in both functions will help me get on track both physically and mentally.

You guys have honestly made me feel better than I have in weeks.

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lovelyxwow September 29 2012, 03:27:08 UTC
I don't agree that they stopped PT--while it can heal naturally, I still think that hand therapy would be beneficial. I'm terribly sorry to hear that things are even worse.

I wish that there was a way you could play the sims somehow or mesh with your left hand or something. I can understand how bad it feels to be witdrawn from the sims. Do you have any ideas for how to play? I would love to help out.

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pkheartznroses September 29 2012, 14:35:20 UTC
Jessy, I was a little dismayed they stopped PT so soon, but I figured since they were the professionals they knew best. I've tried left handing it with the sims. It works semi ok for TS3, but for TS2 not so much and forget meshing. I tried to do a simple shoe swap and before I got done with the first few of vertices I realized that it was not going to work. It's times like these I wish I were ambidextrous ( ... )

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lovelyxwow September 29 2012, 20:13:07 UTC
Yeah, I was going to suggest being on tumblr reading stories or looking at pictures but I would think that would actually make things worse.

I hope you can break out of your depression and we all still care about! Get well, Jacci. If you'd ever want to talk about anything, shoot me a pm or add me on msn or something like that. You're not alone. :)

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pkheartznroses September 30 2012, 19:29:33 UTC
I added you and screened jic you wanted that bit private :)

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xgoat September 29 2012, 04:35:16 UTC
Sorry to hear! That has to be so frustrating, that you have to use the computer one-handed, and that your therapist isn't very understanding.

I'm here to help or listen if you need it.

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pkheartznroses September 29 2012, 14:37:07 UTC
Thank you so much Goat. I do have to admit having to be one-handed is not fun, but I did but this fancy laptop with the multi-gesture touchpad that I've never used really until recently. It does take a lot of the stress of scrolling and clicking and such.
:)

Thanks so much for being here for me.

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jbeach34 September 29 2012, 08:22:50 UTC
Oh Jackie...NO!!!!!
I am sooo sorry to hear that you've taken a turn for the worst! Man, that sucks! I getcha!!! I know exactly how ya feel, too! No simming! And NO meshing!!! That bites!!!

Whining my a@@! You did the right thing in turning to your 'understanding' simming friends!!! If ANYONE'S going to understand, it would be us!!! :P

If there's anything I can do at all to help out.... Or if you just need an ear to vent in...don't hesitate!!! PM me if ya want! ;) But, whatever you do, don't sit in your room all by your lonesome and beat yourself up for something that's not your fault! (At least, not totally!!! ;) ...your fault!)

I'll keep ya in my prayers for a speedier recovery!
<3 <3 <3

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pkheartznroses September 29 2012, 14:39:13 UTC
G-Knee thanks for the prayers, they are truly appreciated. And you pegged it, I have withdrawn to my room and have limited contact with pretty much everyone. Have to stop that, it's like being on a pity-bender or binge. Gotta stop it.

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trappingit September 29 2012, 10:46:39 UTC
Oh no, that's just awful! I'm so sorry people aren't understanding and/or getting the whole picture of the problem. I know how it must feel and just hang in there, the wrist must heal at some point (hopefully sooner than later). And I'm also sorry about how you fell and sprained it again. It must be very frustrating seeing how close you must have been to have it atleast partly healed ):
Just want you to know that you're missed and that I'd be very surprised if not everyone (or even most people) in the community are wishing that your wrist could heal faster. Take care and try not to trip again <3
Oh, and I know this is just a drip on the ocean for most, but unless it isn't for you, once again, don't worry about the trades at TBTO. If you want them then, they'll still be there when your wrist is capable of doing what you want it to be able to do again <3

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pkheartznroses September 29 2012, 14:42:42 UTC
Lina, I know you know more than many what I'm going through and it means a lot to me that you understand what I'm going through. You also hit the nail on the head, I have the mock-up and notes for my stalled BTO trades on my bulletin board and it seems that they are staring at me accusingly everyday. I can't bring myself to take them down.

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