Name: Sara
Previously Stamped As: Violet
♥ ›› Describe your personality in a nutshell.
In five words, I am moody, quirky, affectionate, stubborn, and introverted. :D I am an INTP-type personality, although I'm a few points from being an INFP (I kinda say I'm a hybrid INTP/INFP because I have traits of both personality types).
♥ ›› What are some positive, attracting traits about you?
I'm pretty accepting of different ideas (it's something I've worked a lot on, because I used to judge things without actually knowing them well). I'm a loyal friend and I make sure to show my affection to the people I love (I hug people a lot! ♥). I guess I'm a people-pleaser, because I always try to make everyone in the group happy. My close friends say I'm fun to be around, mostly because I don't care if I look silly, just as long as I'm happy and having fun (but that's only around people I know really well). I'm a good listener (but not much of an advice-giver).
♥ ›› And some negative not-so-attracting traits?
Most people's first impression of me is that I'm aloof and snobby, because I tend to be quiet and closed-off around people I don't know; once I'm comfortable around them though, I'm loud and I don't think about what I do or say, and I get into trouble because of that. I'm overly moody and that affects my personality a lot-- I go from hyper (which makes me act without thinking and gets me into trouble) one minute then depressed the next. I'm also a huge klutz and tend to space out a lot. I have a quick temper and hold grudges. I care too much what people think of me, and I take criticism too seriously.
♥ ›› What are some traits that are ideal for the perfect guy?
He has to be smart, but not too smart that I feel inferior. Also, I want a guy who makes me laugh a lot, and is fun to joke around with. He has to be nice, obviously. I'd love a guy who'd be patient enough to put up with my mood swings, but can keep me from being a bitch too often. It takes me a while to warm up to people, so I need someone with whom I'll feel comfortable with. Of course, it would never hurt if he's good-looking, too. :P You could say that I'm looking for my best friend. :D
♥ ›› What are some traits that are an instant rejection in a guy?
I can't stand arrogance, cockiness, closed-mindedness. Oh, and slobbiness, too.
♥ ›› Describe what your perfect date would be like:
I'd love it if the guy appreciated food like me (and wouldn't look down on me when I say that I eat a lot)! You could say that the way to my heart is through my stomach, so a delicious dinner would be perfect.
♥ ›› Do you tend to fall for the tall, dark, mysterious and handsome, or the light-hearted, cheerful and sometimes silly guys? Or maybe a little in between?:
I love the light-hearted, silly guys! I can't stand brooding.
♥ ›› Do you believe opposites attract or those with many things in common?
As much as I love shipping couples who are "opposites", I prefer someone with whom I have many things in common. Obviously, we wouldn't agree on everything, but I'd like it if we had mutual ground.
♥ ›› Are money, power or looks in a man important to you?
They would be a nice bonus, lol. Having good looks, money or power isn't a negative, but they aren't as important as, say, the guy's intelligence and sense of humor.
♥ ›› Do you believe in your man doing things for you or do you like to do things yourself?
I can do things for myself, but it would be sweet if he helps me out when I need him. :)
♥ ›› Do you believe in a more traditional marriage (the woman stays home and homemakes, the man goes out and works) or do you believe in a more modern marriage?
Traditional marriage? Eww, no. *is feminist* I'd be a terrible homemaker, anyway. >_< Seriously though, I prefer the more modern approach to married life. Except if I have kids, though-- I would definitely take time off to care for them.
♥ ›› Name one Pixar man you think would be an awful match for you and explain why:
Errr. Mater, I guess? He'd annoy the hell out of me, that's for sure.
♥ ›› Would you like a male or a female match?
Male, please. :)
♥ ›› Anything else you'd like us to know? I LOVE THIS THEME. :D