better to be single and freepigshitpoetFebruary 23 2024, 06:59:40 UTC
ugh. thanks for saying so. i've been considering how to transition just that lately
yeah, negotiation and reconciliation ongoing as far as arguing with women, you can't win. even if you secede, they still think you're wrong, so what's the point? -imho
i appreciate her company and her personality at times, but when it comes to arguing, i find it useless. the answer takes mutual effort to learn to get along i'm there. i have no expectations, she does, for some reason unbeknownst to me, because she hesitates to explain anything and keeps me guessing i have no idea why she feels this way. period. she's post-menopause, so she doesn't even have that excuse. we're friends and business partners, not a couple maybe that's the thing, women always want more but that's a whole other story
sorry, i don't mean to drag you into this it's my holy war )) thanks for listening take care
Re: better to be single and freelautenistFebruary 24 2024, 14:55:39 UTC
Reading your reply I thought "Maybe this is just a way how women express their emotions/mood. And it is to us, their men, because they feel connected and trust us we would get it right - which we all too often won't"
Not sure, if this could be a valid thought. But maybe it's food for thought?
Re: better to be single and freepigshitpoetFebruary 26 2024, 06:52:23 UTC
yes, i hear what you're saying and it's true another side to relationship i've learned is happy wife, happy life so it upsets me when she gets upset, it's just her moods i guess it happens to all of us, if we take something personally hopefully she'll get over it eventually life is too short and there is no merit in wasting energy over spilt milk but that's just me i know she feels different well, on with the show !! thanks for your comment cheers
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yeah, negotiation and reconciliation ongoing
as far as arguing with women, you can't win.
even if you secede, they still think you're wrong,
so what's the point? -imho
i appreciate her company and her personality at times,
but when it comes to arguing, i find it useless.
the answer takes mutual effort to learn to get along
i'm there. i have no expectations, she does, for some reason unbeknownst to me,
because she hesitates to explain anything and keeps me guessing
i have no idea why she feels this way. period.
she's post-menopause, so she doesn't even have that excuse.
we're friends and business partners, not a couple
maybe that's the thing, women always want more
but that's a whole other story
sorry, i don't mean to drag you into this
it's my holy war ))
thanks for listening
take care
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Not sure, if this could be a valid thought. But maybe it's food for thought?
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another side to relationship i've learned is
happy wife, happy life
so it upsets me when she gets upset,
it's just her moods i guess
it happens to all of us, if we take something personally
hopefully she'll get over it eventually
life is too short
and there is no merit in wasting energy over spilt milk
but that's just me
i know she feels different
well, on with the show !!
thanks for your comment
cheers
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