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Mar 06, 2008 23:25

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rin, relationships, tl;dr, contemplating, spitfire, hitomi, simca, tamaki

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foretelling March 7 2008, 22:09:03 UTC
...Maa, Hatsuharu-san, I think you did raise some good points, but...

...I think there can be "us", but also, "you" and "I", because what are you going to do if there's a chance your other half of "us" isn't always around? Especially for those...who have never been an "us"...it's not necessarily self-centered I think, but...it's complicated like you said...

The truth is, it's kind of hard to get into that thinking, because, when someone is upset, it's usually based on emotions, not logic, ne?

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pasteurize March 7 2008, 22:13:35 UTC
I know what you mean. I really do. I guess it has to do with the fact that I feel selfish when I do things, sometimes on impulse, without Rin knowing. I guess I just want her approval on everything, because I don't want to do anything to upset her. It's probably because I worry about everything.

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foretelling March 7 2008, 22:26:41 UTC
Ne, I understand, I feel the same way with Tamaki. But...maybe...

Maybe, while you think about how the other person would feel when you do certain things, you also have to consider how you feel too. Because what if you want to do something, but you're afraid it'll upset Rin-san? If you don't do it, you might be the one that will be upset, which will probably get her upset anyways because she cares about you, right?

It's a hard choice either way...

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pasteurize March 7 2008, 22:38:46 UTC
Mm, I understand. It is hard. I guess it's just something we still have to learn. Or maybe... it will always be a mystery.

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