So Ella has been having accidents as of late. She gets really mad and pees. She's been to the doctor twice in the last week because we were sure that she was sick and the first time she probably was. After all, she spent Friday night with a temp between 101 and 102 and was vomiting. On Saturday, the doctor told us a virus has been going around
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Do you think she's striking out at you because you are back to working so much? Daddy, too? Would she act that way around grandma and aunt and cousin or does she value their respect more than yours?
This reminds me of when my nephew was about 4 and his dad did something to piss him off. I don't remeber what is was. I do remember that Drew smeared poop onto my brother's hairbrush and then cold-bloodedly told him about it the next day after my brother had brushed his hair. I think the real punishment for that was that he had to buy Daddy a new hairbrush out of his own money--- but I seem to remember he got an ass-beating, too.
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We all need the chance to pull this kind of stuff out, examine it, and ask for a fresh perspective. Or just let it all out when we can't keep it in and mulling any longer.
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Well, if not-- It sounds like Ella is NOT having accidents. They're "On Purposes."
I remember you mentioned seeing a counselor. Maybe they could give you a bit of insight into how you react to Ella's behavior. If you can't get her to stop through authoritative channels, changing your own reaction may be the only way to deal with it in the long run. When she no longer gets the attention or reaction she wants, she'll change her behavior. At least this is a widely believed theory that I have discussed with several of my own therapists.
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