I agree that a significant number of FTMs "turn gay," BUT... I've been partnered 8 years to a gay male. He once told me that on one of his lists for trannyfags, it seemed like MOST of the guys had female partners. It's entirely possible to id as gay male and be partnered with a woman. I will say that, like you fear, it's been hard for me to become secure in his attraction to me, given his orientation. However, that problem is more my head trip than an actual one, and we've worked on it together. If your relationship is secure, you probably have less to worry about than you think.
My ftm partner is three months into T and as he has come along in his transition, has suddenly turned his orientation from strongly attracted to women to only attracted to men. I don't understand. I mean I am pretty sure with what he has said since telling me that he is gay that he is at least bi, but to lose all attraction to women, I don't understand unless it is just the strong hormones that are putting the attraction to me in the forefront right now *shrugs*
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Loree
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my thoughts are with you!
Jana
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