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papiergeest

The Trouble with Love for an Introverted Codependent

Jul 02, 2013 20:59

or Reflections on the Problems of Living as a Serial MonogamistI know it has been a very long time since i have written anything in this journal, much less anything of import. But i am thinking this could be a good space for me to both vent some of my frustrations and give my swirling thoughts more substance and flesh ( Read more... )

love, life, heartbreak, relationships, mental disorder, self diagnosis, self reflection, being single, frustration, single, relationshit, mental illness, ben

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molasses July 3 2013, 08:11:52 UTC

i am hugging you, beauty.

papiergeest July 3 2013, 20:40:01 UTC

Thank you :') <3

khall July 3 2013, 19:59:15 UTC

*hugs tight* Polyamory and polyamourist, I think you mean. Polygamy is better associated with Fundie LDS sects and old-school Islam.:)

Are you a sub? A submissive? One of the things I've noticed is, when subbie girls don't know it, or are in vanilla relationships...they tend to get taken advantage of. If you found a dom, who would...protect you and...savor your gifts and sacrifices, while not letting you make too many sacrifices, it might make you happier? Dunno, just a thought.

We've all had our relationship upheavals. There are several women that i just love to death and wish I could clone myself and be their monogamous co-parent/lover/husband...but in the real world...it just doesn't work. It is sad and sucks. But...life, I guess.

K.

papiergeest July 3 2013, 20:39:24 UTC

Yeah, you were right, i messed the terminology up, so it has been edited.

I don't think i am a sub...if anything, slightly dom, maybe. Though i have never really tried being in a dom/sub situation on either side of the coin. I'm not really in to pain either giving or recieving, however the other aspects of control seem more interesting to me and i just haven't played around with them.

Yeah life...is what it is. I just hope i can find happiness in love, someday.

molasses July 4 2013, 06:45:25 UTC

i needed to read this again and think about it ( ... )

slfcllednowhere July 7 2013, 00:09:44 UTC

Sorry dear. {{{{{{{{{{love}}}}}}}}}}}

Thank you mikegw November 2 2014, 19:38:54 UTC

I'm also going through similar things to you and have decided to write for 20 minutes a day to see if it helps clear my head. Many of the things you metioned really ring true with me. I wish you luck taking time for yourself, developing your interests and creating a full and healthy life for yourself. : )