It's over

Jan 07, 2008 10:07

I really should have some userpics to express melancholy and/or anger... maybe I just errantly didn't see a reason to. well... a pirate will have to do ( Read more... )

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oh my god.... lavenderrose January 9 2008, 05:44:05 UTC
i had no idea... umar, i'm so sorry about all this... feel free to call.

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Re: oh my god.... panama777 January 9 2008, 14:38:53 UTC
Thanks, love.

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foolsgoldxo January 11 2008, 07:22:44 UTC
Sorry - didn't see this post till now. Am still in Ohio, but yes I knew what was happening and was praying for all 3 of you.

I love you both and especially Little Quinn. (funny how she'll always be Little Quinn to me, even in a few yrs when she passes me up in height!)

My feelings for you and for Angela will not change - they are not dependant on your relationship. You are a dear friend who I connect with weekly - sometimes daily. And Angela is my sweet sister/close friend who I have been blessed to know for over 6 years and who I wish I could see daily.
D and I see no conflict at all in loving you both. No need for anything to change on our end.

This is such a hard thing for your family. I am so sorry and wish you all nothing but the best. See you in a few days. My flight is supposed to return Sat aft so I'll pop into rehearsal.

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panama777 January 11 2008, 16:55:28 UTC
Thanks.

I didn't expect a reply as I know you've had your own things in your life.

It is hard, but we've been getting through and we will continue to.

I'll see you when you return.

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bbwjane January 11 2008, 16:43:28 UTC
Oh my... First, I haven't talked to you in ages and I'm so sorry to see that this is going on in your life.

I don't condone cheating, I know how much it hurts, but at the same time, you have come here and admitted to what you have done and that's a huge step. I have always liked you and won't hate you for it. If you want to talk, just yell.

*HUGS*

Jenn

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panama777 January 11 2008, 16:54:11 UTC
Thanks

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aisforapathy February 7 2008, 02:05:02 UTC
Hey bro,

Sorry that this comment is a whole month late...I've been a bad LJ friend to many and haven't kept up with a lot of folks' recent posts.

Anyway, I am sorry to hear that you and your wife are getting a divorce. We never did talk much about your family, so I always assumed that things between you two were fine. That said, this is something of a shock to me, but you are a strong guy and you will make it through this. It takes a big man to come forth publicly and admit your wrongdoing like you have, but it was definitely the right thing to do. We all make mistakes; the trick is to learn from them.

I am sure that you and Angela will together make the right decisions as they pertain to your little girl, even if you are apart. After all, you don't have much of a choice if you both care about her well-being, which you no doubt do.

Best of luck, man.

--Nate

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