My father found me on myspace 14 years after walking out on me & my pregnant mother. I'm glad this is a happier experience for you and one that you can handle on your own terms. <3 xx
Wow, that's rather astonishing that your brother and sister came across your post. And it's crazy that you managed to track down your father as well. I'm happy for you that it happened this way because this is what you wanted and you were able to control the situation for yourself. I can't even begin to image how hard it would be not knowing who your father was for all that time. My family background is really, painfully messy so I'd rather not go into detail - but I know what it's like having no control over the dealings with your parents. It's not nice (even if you know it's for the best). But that's wonderful that you've developed a relationship with your sister and brother. It sounds like you have a really lovely relationship with them now :):)
Wow, the internet is a crazy place! o.0 I just saw this post, so I hope everything's still manageable with this crazy situation.
And actually, I hope everything's going okay for you in general these days! We miss you on twitter, so I hope you'll come play with us again sometime. *hugs* <3
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I have yet to respond to my dad, I'm waiting for my sister to call me this afternoon so we can discuss it.
Overall, though, it has been much less traumatic than I would have ever thought. Thank goodness!
Thanks for your support, sweetie!
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I can't even begin to image how hard it would be not knowing who your father was for all that time. My family background is really, painfully messy so I'd rather not go into detail - but I know what it's like having no control over the dealings with your parents. It's not nice (even if you know it's for the best).
But that's wonderful that you've developed a relationship with your sister and brother. It sounds like you have a really lovely relationship with them now :):)
I wish you the best of luck with this<3
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Pretty cool that you got to connect with your siblings, too!
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And actually, I hope everything's going okay for you in general these days! We miss you on twitter, so I hope you'll come play with us again sometime. *hugs* <3
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